HOw do i get him to open up a little more?
If i ask him what he wants to do or what should we do he always just says "whaever you want" and nothing else if i ask him questions that could be suggestive he just gets a little weird, how do i get that to stop its been months??????
2006-12-02 07:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by Riley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not quiet
2006-12-02 07:16:22 · update #1
he only gets shy about questions that could be suggestive, otherwise hes open with me
2006-12-02 07:18:28 · update #2
no no im a shy person so i understand, bring him places like to a get together with your friends and introduce him hell have to talk to someone, and encourage him that if he opens up he wont get embarrased or anything
2006-12-02 07:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy do i know how you feel..
i have the same problem with my boyfriend, hes was so extremely shy, and im not shy myself so i couldnt understand it
if hes a shy person, he wont change, you can work at it to make it improve though.. but you cant drive yourself nuts with it
one way, with like the plans thing, is they'll ask if you want to hang out or vise versa.
you: what would you like to do tonight?
boy: Doesnt matter to me, whatever you want to do.
thats how it goes, right?
next time tell him that it was you who picked that last activity, and so he must pick the next one. when he still says it doesnt matter, be like ohh.. i'd hate not to hang out sinc eyou cant decide =(
another way to open him up, is if you're completely honest and open and can laugh about it all, he's going to follow your lead once he realizes its not that bad
2006-12-02 15:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to aceppt him fo rhim if he is a quiet person then let him be a quiet person and if you dont like it and think you need someone who talks more often then hes not for you but maybe just maybe he might start to open up to you and become more talkative
2006-12-02 15:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, give him some times to use to be...
r both of u moving too fast, & u make him too rush...???
just wait for his step if he 's cannot following ur step...
talk to him & make him understand wat's the problem is..
dont let tis small problem stuck ur love... good luck..
2006-12-04 03:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him fce to face if he goesent change you're not seeing him any more it works every time trust me
2006-12-02 15:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by lalala_mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time.
2006-12-02 15:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋