Why are most women so cowardly?

Question

Women do not have to take any chances when it come to dating. Just sit back and do thumbs up or down. Men have to risk rejection every time and still are expected to pay for everything. Why?

I don't have a big problem with paying for dinner, or a weekend skiing, either, but it really pisses me off that I have to take all the risk most of the time.

Keep in mind my question says most women.

Answer 1

There is some truth in saying that women take a passive role in the crazy dance called dating. Honestly, many woman can be shy, but you can't judge everyone you meet by the majority. But when you say most women are "cowardly" in terms of relationships and dating, you are dealing in stereotypes, which rarely tell the whole truth about the individual or group that they are concerning.

Despite movements of female empowerment in the last century, many women are still following social rules that where laid down long before any living generation was born. 100 years ago, women couldn't even vote, and it was only fifty or so years ago that it became socially acceptable for women to pursue a serious career rather than settle down and marry.

Today, many modern women can be "brave" and have no trouble approaching a guy they are interested in. I have asked men out myself, but more than once I have been told some guys felt I was too forward by making the "first move". Some women can be discouraged by a society that still does not hold a woman equal to a man. And by the fact, that a lot of men write off these "brave" women as too eager or easy. I've even been called too "mannish" when I assert myself. It may seem us women are sending mixed signals in this regard, but not anymore than modern men do, in my opinion.

And as far as the paying for everything is concerned. If you are no expecting to pay for your date, make it clear before you go out. That way there's no misconception. If your date has a problem with it, then she's probably not for you.

Answer 2

that's no longer real. That good judgment probable got here down from the old cases whilst adult males have self assurance that ladies human beings have been the inferior area of the human race (relatively it nevertheless impacts us even right this moment). useful some women human beings could be that. yet i positioned on a emphasis on "some" accepted maximum females human beings of this era and age are extra braver than adult males (you will locate many sturdy examples in modern-day background of this). So whoever instructed you that lie, tell that person to look up in a background e book and go searching in the worldwide, and ask this, "the place have you ever been the final a hundred years?" in an attempt to answer your question: No it does not inevitably recommend women human beings are extra cowardly than a guy who acts female.

Answer 3

that not true, woman take a lot of chances. See there are guys out there that consider woman to only be a piece of *** and then when they get that piece of *** or even when they don't get it they go round telling everyone and call her a slut and whore and all that. Woman get hurt a lot in relationships and yes men do to sometimes but woman are the ones that normally get hurt and so they are not willing to take chances its like they are setting themselves up to get hurt and we don't like doing that. Woman take a lot of chances. and if you don't like paying for everything just talk to you girl about it, ask her if she wouldn't mind picking up the bill everyonce in a while. oh and woman risk rejection a lot too.

Answer 4

most are afraid of getting hUrt,killed or raped their is a case if ur really attracted to the guy and you've known him for a very long time or if you;ve just met the guy in that case some will call it love at first sight while men run after the greatest ***,****, and body they have ever seen in this case their looking for miss new booty
so sorry if Ur sad or upset but some men are pigs

Answer 5

I don't expect men to pay for everything. If I ever go crazy enough to go on a date, we either split the check or nobody pays at all. I wait around for guys becuase I have more important things to worry about.

Answer 6

where have you been? You need to look and talk to people about there perspectives. How women that are the way you describe worry about if they do or do not get asked. Or get to be around girls that are more open and will ask you. If you cannot be a man and spend your part you need to look at some personal problems any how.

Answer 7

Not true..... I saw the man I wanted and went after him, including asking him out for our first date. We've been together 22 years now.

And, I took my share of rejection before that, as well. Why did I ask men out? Because the one's who asked me out were whiny losers who complained if I didn;t want to have sex on the first date, or who stalked me if I didn't want to go out a second time.

Answer 8

Your dating the wrong woman. I believe that a woman is just as responsible to finance a relationship. And I am always putting myself out there, rejection is a part of life I see no reason to fear it. You generalize woman by the ones you happen to stumble across, couldn't it just be your attracted to high maintenance woman?

Answer 9

Because men are traditionally the "hunters" and the stronger, smarter sex. Women are traditionally the homemakers and are the weaker, stupid ones. It wasn't very long ago women couldn't even vote, so how can we be intelligent enough to take on a "man's role" when it comes to dating?

Answer 10

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