I recently met a guy... he have a really great qualities...but he does some silly things...he told me that he want to be with me...and I think he is cute...but he is raised in a village and its not vey6 well known with the proper behaviour. He says to me all the time if theres something that he is doing wornf I should critizice him, cuz he is ready to learn more. But I can't tell him...what's bothering me cuz I'm afraid that I will hurt his feelings.
Today he told me that he knows that my parents wont like him, and eventhough I know that 's true I told him that they will like you ( if we get to that meeting parents stage). He is aware that he is lower then me...and i feel bad about it. I just don't want to hurt him. So what do you suggest...should I talk with him openly...or should I quit...maybe we are no tfor each other after all?
2006-12-02 07:05:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatchu have is a young buck. Is it really his fault that he's not familiar with how these "things" work. Someone has to tell him, wether it be you for perhaps what can turn out to be something great, or someone else and you can be left wondering. Call him and tell him if he's that type of guy because its not his fault and he'll be surprised not embarrassed.
2006-12-02 07:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by slimshay26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower than you? What is this? Where do you come from, Royalty? I have never heard such garbage in the US before. Even the Presidents daughters marry us common folk, after all, we do put our pants on one leg at a time. And if your so high and mighty why aren't you talking to your private psychiatrist, mommy and daddy furnish to you rich brats?
I suggest you leave him alone and let him have a life and not distroy his chance of being common and normal.
2006-12-02 15:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is aware that he is lower than You?! If you feel he is lower than you and you make him feel as such, you should not be with him. When you are with someone, you are equals in all areas. If you feel he is not your equal and is lower than you, by all means leave him be so he can find someone who feels he is their equal and not below them. He deserves much better treatment than what you can give him. He deserves to be treated with the utmost respect and you clearly do not give him that. Perhaps you are the one who should be criticized and are below him, with your way of thinking? Remember, we are all equals.
2006-12-02 15:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
folow your heart it doesnt matter what ur parents think or any bosy else if he lower then u or not as long as yal like each other and yall are happy then thats all that matters
2006-12-02 15:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋