I wanted to ask everyone out there, the ones who have bf, gf, wife or husband that have a night out with their friends at bars or clubs, what do you think about them dancing with other men or women? I’m talking like slow dancing you know the ones that you are all press up against the other person. I was thinking in a way that might be a form of cheating, so come on and tell me what you think. The reason way I asking my gf thinks it ok for her to have a night out and do this. But, she told me she would leave my a** if I done this.
2006-12-02 06:54:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't really think it's wrong but if it dos get to the point where it's not just slow then it is wrong it's a form of cheating and why would you take it dating is right there wuth you.
2006-12-02 06:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by 1sexybitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is double standards... come on man... there is nothing wrong in a slow dance with some one you like when you are out for an evening.. but then the rule should be the same for both of you... if she can like that, you also have a right to feel the same way and do it... i think you two are different people...
or may be, i think she is trying to make you jealous by doing it... but can not stand it herself if you do it...
is she trying to get you into a more stable/ steady relationship or commitment???
2006-12-02 15:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by HavingFun!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok for her to do it but not ok for you to do it!!! She obviously doesn't care about what you think because seems she is going to do what she wants to do anyway.
If your in a relationship that is loving and healthy, you don't want to dance with anyone else. You might want a night out with friends but its to be with your friends not to go looking for someone to dance with. So yes, I think its a form of cheating or definitely leading up to it!!
2006-12-02 14:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of dancing you are referring to is often viewed offensive by both sexes due to the nature and history/background of it.
The dance to my knowledge originates from the mating dance/trying to impress, and therefore has a lot of sexual and provocative undertones to it.
That part you cannot argue with- you would not normally "dirty dance" or take up a total strangers personal space without underlying dire intentions?? - That is why the partner gets worried so.
Yet........ In reply to the rest of the question,. there is obviously no difference in standards or anything between genders lol. Its the same dance and principles.
Have a go at her ! ;)
Skye xx
2006-12-02 15:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Skye_Babez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You treat people how you want to be treated. I have a friend that his girlfriend works in a titty bar. She don't like it when he goes at all even if its not her bar she works in? How is that right ,,she Can work in one but he cant go to one.. On your question i am a women so you know And I would not do something that i would not want my boyfriend or husband to do . I am married and I'm 22 years old my husband is32 years old. Its not right for her do be allover another man. and not OK for you to be allover dancing with a women.. She is wrong in my book
2006-12-02 15:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by tonyad143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she is going 2 have a double standard like that then hun u have the wrong gf.
if u have a open relationship then no its not cheating but 4 me if I am with someone I do not want them dancing slow with anyone but me and I would never dance like that with anyone else.
good luck
2006-12-02 14:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree it can be seen to be cheating as slow dancing is normally how 2 lovers display their closeness to one and other. slow dancing to love songs can end up with the 2 people lost in the moment and then kiss. I'd not like to know that my partner was slow dancing especially when i was not there nor the one with whom she was dancing slow with
2006-12-02 15:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by madjedi32x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a form of cheating but it is by no means right. How do you know she dances like this? are you there? If your not why not? go out with her. If she starts to dance with a guy start dancing with a girl.
2006-12-02 15:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Laura s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its cheating but it is a step towards cheating which means doing this could open up more chances for things to happen. She shouldn't be like that.
2006-12-02 15:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it is a ofrm of cheating and that you need to find a girl friend who cares more about you adn your feelongs than herself...she is obviously caught up in what she wants and realizes its a form of cheating if she doesn't want you to do it. She just has a double standard going here that isn't fair to you.
2006-12-02 15:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by dadsprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋