2006-12-02 06:50:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
As long as you don't do it in a rude way. Usually the quiet ones are very shy. If you try to make him the center of attention, he is going to resent you, and pull even farther into his shell. If he has a speech problem (or thinks he has) this could also be a reason for his not talking.
2006-12-02 07:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! Think about it. You do not talk to this person, and the first thing you do to him is question his actions. I'm very quiet, especially in a scholastic setting. I usually prefer to listen. I've been asked before, and I have felt as if the asker was questioning the validity of my preferred behavior. If you want to make conversation, do not start with probing questions. They may make him uncomfortable. Try small talk. I would welcome this.
2006-12-02 06:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by pinacoladasundae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It not rude.... just be nice.... chances are he very shy, and wants to talk, in fact might even want to talk to you.... but is afraid.... chances are either he afraid or he attracted to you and does not know how to talk to you which is compounded by his fear as well as fear of rejection that you might not want to talk to him.
I remember when I was young and that shy.... and whoa and behold the girl I liked came right to me and said hello and talked with me.... although I never had the guts to tell her how I feel or even ask her out. I felt great that I could at least talk with her, even if my heart I could never show.
Chances are he will do anything for you, all you have to do is ask him.
2006-12-02 07:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonlord Warlock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when people say that to me. i always have the same answer, "you're supposed to listen and not talk in class." it could be that or he just doesn't have any friends in that class. just don't assume he's "quiet" per say, because he's only quiet in that class.
2006-12-02 06:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by molander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very rude...
He may be a mute or just plain shy. No one likes confrontation.
2006-12-02 07:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Justin G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be human jerky I suggest you dont say nothing at all! Its always the quiet ones that are crazy!
2006-12-02 07:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Love Child 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it is. im sure if i was sitting around minding my own business and some dope said "whys ur no talkin LOL" it wouldnt be the high point of my day.
2006-12-02 12:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is one of those rare people who only speaks when he feels he has something worth saying. We could probably all learn from him.
2006-12-02 06:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna be #1 on his hit list go ahead.
2006-12-02 08:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋