I am 27 i think i have bipolar or just extreme depression anexiety. I got a $180k job last week and quit due to anexiety and depression. Now i want to die. i just started effoxer 2 days ago but i still feel like dying.
2006-12-02 06:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can completely understand your condition. I also understand that you just feel like running away from all your problems. Finish them all once and for all...
But before you think of doing anything just imagine what will happen to your near and dear ones... you parents, brothers/sisters, uncles/aunts, grand parents, friends...? How will they live without you? Who will love them if you don't? Whom will they love if not you? You are precious to them? They have made an emotional investment in you. Don't you think you should pay those emotional debts before leaving for your big journey?
I will tell you a way to do this... We visit our family members and friends before going out for a very long period. Don't we?
In the same way, you can decide to spend a couple of days with each one of them to compensate for the loss which they are going to have. During that period which you will be spending with them, don't think of anything which gives you bad feelings... Let these be the best days of your life with them. Express your Love as much as you can... respect them as much as you can. This way you can pay off your emotional debts.
After you have exhausted your list by visiting your near & dear ones, come back to Yahoo Answers or you can write to me personally. That time I will surely give you the reply to your question. But just wait till you do all that I have said.
Go man go you have a long list...
2006-12-02 07:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please bear with me, this answer will at first seem remote and unconnected. Here goes.... You know how, if you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend you can feel quite desperate at times for sex, but if you masturbate you later feel much more at ease and the whole thing seems less important? Well, when you have depression you have that same type of desperation. If you go to sleep instead of committing suicide you'll feel similarly to when you'd had an orgasm. As for the medication. Forget what the 'experts say' - 'experts' in what?. Stop taking the meds immediately - they shouldn't have a grip on you yet if you've only been on them for 2 days so just go out to the countryside with a tent and some food. Take a while to chill out and readjust your view of the world. When you come back you'll probably find that you're not REALLY clinically depressed or 'bipolar' but that you've noticed your reaction to how ridiculously messed up the world is. hope that helps.
2006-12-02 06:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by rarosera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, one of the side effects of antidepressants is suicide. Seriously, they do substantially increase your risk of a 'successful' suicide within the first few months of taking them. I really hope you do not choose that route as I feel your life has great value and I also know, due to my own experiences, that you can be happy again.
My friend, you are not going to feel like this forever and you deserve to live. You might not feel like it now, but life for you can be more wonderful than you could ever imagine. I had several unsuccessful suicide attempts during many years of severe depression. I wish I had known back then what I know now. I am not on a supplement that treats central nervous system disorders. I joined a support program called TrueHope that helped me get off prescription meds and onto this supplement.
Do yourself a favor and check out the TrueHope program. Read a book called THESE PAINTED WINGS; there is a link to it on the site I'll post under 'source.'
I can virtually guarantee that if you take seriously the information you find at the TrueHope site, your life will change forever in a positive direction. They also have a 'doctor's package' available in case you want to inform your doctor about this other choice, keeping in mind that many doctors are negative about what they don't know about. If I had stuck with doing what my doctor wanted I can guarantee I would be dead by now.
In the meantime, you remain in my prayers. I pray for you to have the peace and joy that I have today (spent the last 2 years of being depressed praying for joy), and to be genuinely happy.
2006-12-02 07:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Samslou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the job was too stressful for you then you were right to quit. No amount of money is worth doing something that makes you unhappy. Your antidepressant will take a good 2 weeks to be effective. Do not even think about killing yourself. Try very hard to think about positive things, get involved with helping someone else. Volunteer to help those less fortunate and you will be surprised how this will give your life purpose and meaning. You need to go back to your doc and tell him/ her that you need something stronger and that you are feeling suicidal. I'm sure there are people in your life that would be devastated by your killing yourself and you need to think about their feelings too. Your life could turn out to be awesome and you don't want to miss out on that. Hang in there- I PROMISE it will get better...you just have to be strong and make it one day at a time until that happens. There is no method that is not painful. Suicide is very painful for you and the ones you love. You are too young to throw your life away. God Bless.
2006-12-02 06:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this to yourself and don't do it to your family/friends. If you are a smart enough man to get a $180k job, you are smart enough to help yourself feel better. And if you're a man, force yourself to cry. Scientists have discovered that depression- causing compunds come out of your tears, so you end up feeling better after a good cry. You'll be OK. Did you ever notice, stuff always works out eventually somehow? Cry, smoke a joint, and then you'll have a different perspective, and by Monday morning, you will be ready to seize the day!
2006-12-02 07:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go back to the doctor whom prescribed the Effexor and tell him it is not helping and let him know how you are feeling. Bipolar is generally caused by a chemical imbalance resulting in the the brain lacking in a mood hormone, I cannot think of the name of it, but it effects your mood. You need to find the right combination in medication to balance it out. Also it would be good to talk to a professional about your feelings. They're organizations that can help such as the county that you live in usually offers counseling services based on your income or they're Christian based services that will help. Look on the web for family counseling services in your area. Also if you want to try to get your job back, be honest with your employer and tell him/her what is going on and hopefully they will be sympathetic. I know how you feel, Ive been where you are at, you will be okay..
2006-12-02 07:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Desiree _38_r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
start off with ...can I get your old job ? grinning here....you dont know it , but I was in the same situation as you almost 3 months ago ...and I figured, what the f**k...I can kill myself....or ...since I have nothing to lose, I can just give LIFE my best shot just for the hell of it ...
so I did...and then I expected BETTER things ...from God or whatever ...and life got better....and better ....
so ...give it a chance like I did...
ps...I have some good NLP stuff if you would like to listen...mainly , the NLP brings attention to the 'feelings'...like
how would you FEEL if you had life by the balls...and everything was wonderful....feel the feelings....everything....and the just KEEP feeling that way ....
hang in there...
bellieve it or not, I called our suicide line...and was PUT ON HOLD !
pretty funny now....
2006-12-02 06:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by one4birdiebob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by saleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't kill yourself. I've also had a bad week and I have been feeling depressed every and all day. I'm starting to feel a little better today. I've never really considered killing myself but I have questioned the purpose of my existence. You will get through it. Just set some new goals for yourself to get you motivated about life again.
2006-12-02 07:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmm... seriously? i hope you talk to a professional. look forward to the future and get help. dying=bad. living=good. after talking to a professional mabye you can get a hooby, or start collecting something to make life more interesting? or try sometihing new like parachuting or something? that would be really fun! seriouly though. get medical help and you'll feel better. alot of people go through what you are right now and later live happy lives.
2006-12-02 06:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by xctibbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋