Having a bit of trouble telling someone it's over....he doesn't seem to take no for an answer even though I've told him on the phone. I've ignored his calls and deleted his texts without reading them, so i think I've done all I can but he doesn't seem to get the message. what else can i do?
2006-12-02 06:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So everyone knows, I will not sleep with any of his friends, I don't do that sort of thing
2006-12-02 07:49:48 · update #1
THE BEST THING NOW IS TO JUST IGNORE HIM
I THINK HE WILL GET THE HINT
2006-12-02 06:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him in his face and let him see the seriousness in your eyes, listen to it come out of your mouth, and make sure that he understands. He can't see how serious you are over the phone, ignoring his calls may make him think that you were just busy/or gone, and he don't know that you're just deleting his text without him being right beside you. Step to him as a woman and explain to him that the feeling aren't there anymore and it's time to move on. You thought that he would understand that when you told him on the phone, but you realize that he's not getting the point. And just point blankly let him know what's up. I know that you are probably just trying to avoid doing it in his face because you don't want to see the hurt/or expression he may give, but obviously nothing else worked. Good luck, babygirl.....
2006-12-02 06:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.CuteCaDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When telling him, which is best done face to face even though that might be hard, tell him straight, not with any vagueness as this can be interpreted as a "I might get back together, later, but not now" sort of statement. Most important of all is to make sure the message is clear, not unkind and then part on amicable terms.
2006-12-02 06:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by nlao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls. Calmly and Sternly say. "I'm very sorry, but I do not want to date you anymore. Please stop calling me. "
If he tries to keep talking. Just keep repeating it until at some point he will give up and probably hang up. It may sound mean. But its the only why to get the message across to him, with out a restraining order.
2006-12-02 06:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should have told him face to face in the first place rather than by phone! a bit cowardly, he's better off without you!
2006-12-02 06:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men... there never easy.....like all these people id say the same thing, tell him to his face and dont be nice about it, padding up the truth either aint gonna help....if all else fails strutt around with a new man till he gets the hint!!!!
2006-12-02 06:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you - but ignore him completely - or talk to him face to face - tell him what he keeps doing is upsetting you - if he really cares about you he will stop!
2006-12-02 06:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is harrassing you, so you need to tell him to STOP. face to face, and take a friend as a witness if you feel you need to.
Maybe he became emotionally attached to you, and finds your decision difficult to deal with.
2006-12-02 06:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did everything accept talk to him face to face. Tell him why it's over and that it's officially over. And he doesn't want to believe that then the hell with him.
2006-12-02 06:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight face to face
Buddy you are history and kick him to the kerb
2006-12-02 06:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him face to face, you do owe him that. Looking into your eyes will let him know you are serious
2006-12-02 06:20:31 · answer #11 · answered by bingomom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋