I have this huge crush on this guy I thought liked me, but it turns out he doesn't. Know any good sites with advice on how to get over him?
2006-12-02 06:15:35 · 10 answers · asked by princesspie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A crush is a biological reaction with psychological consequences babes. The neuro-transmitters that lead to it, just have to wear off, and wear off they will. Just bear with it like a tooth-ache.
The psychological effects however have the potential to linger on for a while longer. The bravery of being ready to open up your heart to someone only to find out that they are not to reciprocate, creates a great pain!
I was in a similar situation lately and didn't come across any sites. But I did lots of reading and many books advice that, as difficult as it may sound, one should not take rejections of this type seriously and feel unwanted or undesirable. This just means that one person, and only ONE person, does not want to be romantically involved with you. That is it! There are other people in this world!
The downside of a crush is that it narrows our attention from the plenty, to the one. And I am not sure if it is the right way to kick romance off anyway. I now find it much more relaxed to just give people I meet a chance, and let the unfolding of events and common interests develop that something special. If it does, then that is something to cherish, and if it doesn't then I have experienced life with calmness and serenity, without the drug-like highs and lows produced during a crush, and I have learned something during the process. Regards!
2006-12-02 06:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does but just does'nt care so why should you crushes are in a ceretain ways a form of lust that most times get mixed up with love.Do what works meet someone spend time with them have fun,talk, give yourself room to be open allow the same for him dont rush into things share a secret he shares one to share another soon feelings willl kick in to start a new.Dont chase the more you chase the more they run sometimes its better to play hard to get because the harder things are to get the more we want it.Its like when were growing up we always had a favorite toy we like it so much we we need to have it but sooner or later it gets replaced and life goes on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 14:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by kauaiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any good sites, but I have got my heart broken many times. The best thing to do is wait and hang out with other guys. Not kiss other guys n'**** but just meet someone new.
2006-12-02 14:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by inkysunsets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I am going through the same thing and the bad part about it is that I live right accross from him so it is extremely hard to get over him. I try my hardest to stay occupied and stay out of the house so I don't get reminded of him so often. Just share your story with other friends and I am sure they will give you some comforting words to help you get over him.
2006-12-02 14:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see the other two answers were from guys? Yea don't go out with other guys just to make him jealous because you know what if he's not interested it won't work ne way. The best way is to hang out with your girlfreinds.. Go out to the movies go shopping and talk to people. Keep yourself occupied. Start a hobby or learn to cook
2006-12-02 14:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Laura s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over a guy is to get a new one .allso dont let him know your tour up let him think your having a good time and let him see you out with other guys
2006-12-02 14:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by debbie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, stay away from him.
Put your focus elsewhere and be grateful that he's not interested.
2006-12-03 03:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jealous with a another guy
2006-12-02 14:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by waz here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do hell you wanna make him jealous? just dont care about him. does he care about you? no! so why spend time even thinking about him? (even negative)
just move on...
2006-12-02 14:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY HOUSE
2006-12-02 14:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋