It's been 3days and my exgirlfriend who said to me the night she was going to Jamaica that she loves me so much hasn't even called to say, Hey i made it safe or just wanted you to know how things are going. Not even a 35 ct text! I called her to see if her phone was on but her answering machine answers her calls saying that she will be out of town for 6 days. Even if I text her she wouldn't know it. I truly believe that she's been playing me. how can u go to another country and not even call the person you claim you love so much in 3 days to let them know how your doing? I believe that she went on this trip with another guy and thats why she's not calling me.She lied and said that it was a all girls trip initially.This situation happened in the past.She claimed that she was over her girlfriends house and it was a all girl event but when she called I heard a guys voice in the background and she confessed that some guys showed up. I found out her flight time and Im gonna be there waiting
2006-12-02 06:10:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no, its not wrong for you to be suspicious. you have good right to be. i agree with u, she should have at least sent you a message to let you know she didnt die in a plane crash. and if you do catch her in a lie when she gets back, drop that biotch like a hot butter biscuit. im sorry you're goin through this. you obviously deserve someone who respects you.
2006-12-02 06:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all back way off. If your EX girlfriend wants to go to Jamaica, and doesn't call you, it doesn't mean anything! You are not married to her, so what is your problem? If you feel she has cheated on you, then go to counceling. It is not just her fault she cheated! What role in the relationship did you fail to fulfill for her? Trust? Quality time? So what if guys showed up at a party! That is suppose to happen. I think it would have been nice to get a call from her @ the airport upon arrival, Just hope nothing happened to her that she couldn't call. If you are so worried about other ***** being in the same room with her, please re evaluate what is driving you to feel this way. People makes mistakes, but it takes a lifetime to correct them. If your not in it for a lifetime, then do your self a favor, and exit stage left. If you are, then you two really need to put your prides aside and seek help from a pastor or something. It worked for my husband and me.
2006-12-02 14:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok so does the first sentence not tell it all? Your EX girlfriend. I don't really understand why she would have to call you? I have been in the Carribean many times and half the time didn't call my parents to tell them I got there b/c it was a pain in the ***. And most cell phones dont work so she can't send you a text. I would'nt show up at the airport. Wait till she gets home. If she was there with some guy, so be it. Leave her alone
2006-12-02 14:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Laura s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, you are involved with someone you don't feel you can trust which means it is time to move on with a different partner. This may seem harsh but you must consider your own feelings as well as hers. You don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what your mate is doing or who she's with whenever she's not in your presence. This would be torture! Any serious relationship depends on trust and if this is missing you are going "nowhere" very quickly.
Stop dwelling in the Valley of Anger and Despair when you have the freedom to move on into the the City of Peace and Contentment.
2006-12-02 14:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she loves you so much she wouldn't be lieing to you and she would have called you or something by now to tell you something. And when she lied the first time about the all girls night you should have been suspicious. I don't think this relationship is meant to be beacuse a realtionship is built on trust and honesty two things your relatinoship doest have. LET HER GO!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 14:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten, twice shy. I think she is having her own kind of fun and you need to be treated with honesty. good luck
2006-12-02 14:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying not to be suspicious but maybe something happened and she hasn't gotten the chance to talk to u yet. when ever you get to talk to her that is the time for you to ask her about it.
2006-12-02 14:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Oh2Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go for it. When she gets off that plane with this other guy and sees you waiting ..... She deserves it.
2006-12-02 14:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by kayla0428 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why bother waiting for her, she hasn't given you the same courtesy.
2006-12-02 14:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by marie_roberts2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is your EX girlfriend.
It is SATURDAY. Go clubbing tonight. Have fun, forget the grief she is/has caused you.
Meet someone who deserves you and TAKE HER TO JAMAICA.
Make sure your EX gets word when you go, but from someone else.
DO not torture yourself by meeting her plane, PLEASE!
2006-12-02 14:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋