well this is a long story and may take some time but her goes nothing. when i was 16 my mom met this guy who was then 21. it was wierd but i thought the relationship would pass. i was wrong. me and my mothers boyfriend didnt get along at all and fought all the time and my mother would ALWAYS be on his side. when i turned 18 i decided i wanted out of there. i was tierd of the fighting and the fact that my mother would never let me leave the house to get a job or even met new people. so i had to leave. i left this past spring and she got over it for awhile everything was good until recently. she ran off to marry this boyfriend who is now almost 24 her amlost 37. and didnt tell me about it. my little sister did. that was a week before thanksgiving. i have been trying to call her about my wedding which is in the summer of 2008 and she wont return my calls she wont even let my siblings talk to me. i think its her husband setting these rules not her. should i keep calling? or give up........
2006-12-02 06:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by mrs middleton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh yea and we live 900 miles apart now...
2006-12-02 06:19:55 · update #1
I'm very sorry, family issues can be difficult. This is your mother, don't allow her new husband to come between the two of you. Keep trying, don't give up.
If she won't talk to you, write her a letter. Explain how you feel. I wish you the best with this.
2006-12-02 06:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I read this and well it it's a tough call, more info would have helped. But from what has happened I think you should try to talk face to face with your mother alone, and then just maybe you can fix this up. WARNING: though it may sound good, what i just suggested, be warned think about your going to say don't just go up to mom and start talking.
Best luck
2006-12-02 14:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up, ecspecially when you really love these people. I reccomend you go straight to the source, I mean go to thier house and tell them face to face. I would probably bring a very close friend, or your fiance with you, so you won't back down.
2006-12-02 14:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing a letter and addressing it to your mother. type the address on the envelope as writing it he may guess that it is your handwriting. if you get no reply from that then i guess you need to either go round and see her. failing that leave them to it as it may be your mother being childish because of you moving out or something. maybe sometime she'll come round.
2006-12-02 14:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by madjedi32x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to their house to speak to her in person? Does she work? You can try reaching her there. It seems to me this new husband of hers is very controlling. Good luck.
2006-12-02 14:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by quatrapiller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he work.....call when hes not there.
Write a letter, drop by for a visit.
However........................if you want to heal and move forward....
Congratulate her....bring a gift...peace offering.............
This might help her and her new hubby and to help heal your relationship.
Best wishes and
Congrats on your engagement
2006-12-02 14:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just trying to "pull your chain" upset you, what mother wouldnt tell her daugh, that she was getting married?? i would drop her,,,, ignore her, dont call her,,, get on with your life,,,, when she contacts you, and she will, talk and be polite with her,,,, but not overly close,,,, choose your life and your future,,,, just as she chose hers
2006-12-02 14:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋