2006-12-02 05:57:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be confident!! Don't be shy, just talk to them like if you asked them something and they said no, that u wouldn't care that much. Go up and start talking to them and say hey you wanna do something later like dinner or a mivoe or something liek that, with a smile of course, and if he says no then say really? ok. maybe next time...being outgoing is going to your weapon of choice!!
goodluck!!
2006-12-02 06:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by tim8laura238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presesnt yourself with the attitue that YOU are really hot. Dont be arrogant or anything, but be 100% confident. Make him or her laugh/smile on a regular basis. Have you ever notices that someone you met looks differently to you over time? A persons personality can drasticly affect how other people perceive you. (I've met extremely beautiful women that become totally unattractive to me just because of a lack of personality and sense of humor).
2006-12-02 14:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men/woman are as hang up on looks as one may think. Tell your crush how you feel, I'm sure they will at least appreciate your honesty. Worst case scenario is that your crush won't reciprocate your feelings, and unfortunately that can be a part of life. My mom always said that which doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. Give it a shot you may very well find that a great personality wins out over good looks.
2006-12-02 14:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The attraction is not always in the physical part. It doesn't matter f he's hot and your not. Win him with your personality. You always win some body's mind and then the physical will come. I'd say go for it, and of course look a little more presentable than you would, but be yourself.
2006-12-02 14:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Peaches22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are the person your after may be as shallow as cookie sheet!
Try to build your confidence, because if you believe you don't look good, that person will see that all over your face so to speak.
If you and this person are ment to be together, then it will happen, if your not, then don't get discouraged. Beauty is always in the eye of the one who truely loves you. If you are after a one nighter, then you are on your own.
2006-12-02 14:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first before you even attempt to love anybody else. And you will see that world will love you.
Remember one thing - the gravity will show its effect one day, so its only love and affection that will have a final say.
And...
what made you think you dont look good? I can see the way you formatted your question - you lack self-confidence. Cheer up!! Go and approach that person. Good luck.
2006-12-02 14:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by vren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are shallow anyway so do not worry too much about it. dress confidently and make sure you always smell nice. Make conversation with the person in question and, while you are talking drop in the sentence "do you wanna go get a coffee with me?". this makes it not sound like you asking for a date, so if they say no you won't be too embarrassed, if they say yes them it gives you time alone with them to get to know them better. if it goes well then ask for a date.
2006-12-02 14:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by madjedi32x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on! You have to be more optimistic than that. You won't get anyone if you don't get your self-esteem together. Hopefully, you have more to offer a woman than looks alone, so if you're diggin' someone, then approach that person and see where it goes from there. Maybe they will be so impressed with your personality that they won't notice....anything else.
2006-12-02 14:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should like someone just because they're hot. But, if you do like them for who they are and their personality that you know so far, then talk to them or something. It may turn out that they like you also. And if they truely like you back, they shouldn't care about your looks, just who you are- whether it be funny, intellegent, or athletic.
2006-12-02 14:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Barbiex) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that you are not hot looking to your crush? I would concentrate on my self esteem if I felt the way you did. Love yourself, confidence goes far.
2006-12-02 14:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋