2006-12-02 05:19:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
show them that it costs more to go to college in the same state than it does to go to another state.
2006-12-02 05:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the reason you are asking this question is b/c your parents will not pay for school if you go away then contact your school about grants scholarships or student loans. That way you can do what you want without your parents trying to control you.
Once they see that you are serious they may come around and help you after all. Parents have a hard time letting go of thier babies. Dont blame them just understand they are hurting that you are leaving. I would talk to them and tell them that if they do not support you leaving then you are going to do it on your own. It takes guts so GOOD LUCK
2006-12-02 05:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They need to let you go. You will become much more of a well-rounded person if you leave the comforts of home and experience a new setting and different types of people. Going away will help you more than it will hurt you. Tell them that they should trust the job they did as parents, and believe they raised you to make wise decisions and be independent. And say this leaving the nest will only make you stronger and help you face real world challenges without always depending on them to hold your hand. Deep down they want you to be a success and will realize that this is just a stepping stone on the path towards it.
2006-12-02 06:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well who's paying for college? If your parents are paying for it, then they have quite a bit of say. If you are paying your own way, then you are an adult and can let them know that you are capable of making these decisions on your own. I would suggest that you apply for scholarships, do some research and find an out of state college that is not terribly expensive and then approach your parents with all info in hand. It is the responsible and adult way to figure this out. Good luck!
2006-12-02 05:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several questions you should answer first....Can you financially afford to transfer ? Are you paying or your parents? Can your grades handle a transfer?Will you continue to make the grade or will the move reflect on your grades? Do you go to work full time & carry a full work load at school ?If you are living at home and going to school and working , you should be putting all that money away in the bank for when you do make that big move.It's hard to be a parent, It's not us not wonting to let go, some times it easier for us financially to keep you at home.We could not afford to pay our childerns bills for them like most of our dauthers parents did or do while their chidren are away at school but we could provide her with a nice home ,local school, food & some extra cash ( at home).
2006-12-02 06:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by donna m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they paying the bills? In-state tuition is a lot less than out-of-state tuition, but none of them are cheap today. College is a very expensive endeavor, so consider whether they just don't want to cut the strings and let you go, or whether they are really looking at the bottom line. Where will you get the best education?
2006-12-02 05:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure, transfer and go to an out of state school. Are YOU going to pay the super expensive tuition?
You can go to college twice in-state for what it would cost to attend out of state once.
2006-12-02 07:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a seat down and consult from them tell them you have a one time grant that u quite need to try this make a settlement that u get a undeniable grade in each type or you stop playing soccer yet whilst it comes right down to it you're actually an grownup you at the instant make your very own judgements and you're able to do whats extra constructive for you what is going to make you a extra constructive person in ten to 15 years
2016-10-17 14:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God sake! How old are you? When my kids are that age I hope I've raised them to have enough confidence to want to go away to college. I would support them all the way. Tell them they have done a good job if you have enough confidence and let you try and stand on your own two feet.
2006-12-02 05:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by jeeps 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do what feels best for you. You are the one going for the education. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel.
2006-12-02 06:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Staci R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋