Ok...my ex just called me today...but i dont wanna take his calls...coz that guy used me for physical relations and he has hurt me a lot evrytime. I lost my mom when i was 10, so, all these things hurt me a lot....he never understood me n never cared for my feelings...he made me cry all the time.
I wish i had my mother to sharethis with but i am all alone...pls help me guys...what should i do?
I am feeling very uneasy since he called me.
Pls help me.
2006-12-02 05:04:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just don't talk to him or see him. Surround yourself with friends and talk to them. If you have no one to talk to, Yahoo! Answers is not the place, go to a school counselor and they can help you find a support system.
2006-12-02 05:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by redcherri817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your mom because she is the best source for advice on this subject however I will try and help
Chances are if he used you in a physical way during your relationship then thats all hes wanting to do again
if it makes you uncomfortable to talk to him then do it one last time and tell him that it does and that you dont want to talk to him again let him know how much it bothers you to talk to him and if the calls dont stop then take further actions ( police report , restraining order , changing your number etc. ) I truly and sincerely hope this helped
2006-12-02 05:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by figadoh7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps calling tell him the truth. Just say listen, "You are an ex for a reason & I am not interested in going back there. When you were in my life you hurt me numerous times & I don't have the time, patience, or energy for that in my life right now." If he don't stop go to the local police department file a complaint & get a restraining order against him.
2006-12-02 05:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely examining your concern/question you're youthful and with that she is perhaps what you're thinking your first "love". seeing that she is time-honored with you nonetheless look after her alot she is taking section in on that and making you seem as if a fool.She calls you from someone elses position(likely a associates) and change into speaking about you and how she met this new guy and how you took it puzzling and change into attempting to tutor a level to her associates as perhaps in line of I wager you i visit call him today and...(even if that she stated) convinced your old flame is not undemanding to get over yet in time you do,it is going to consistently be with you yet you may take it as a gaining understand-how of journey also. you're youthful and characteristic your entire existence previous to you,you've extra loves and extra damaged hearts,you may want to even smash some hearts, yet at the same time as the right one comes alongside,(it would want to no longer be at present,tommorow or perhaps next week )you'll understand it . till then stay existence to the fullest,study as you bypass and each thing else will fall into position.
2016-11-23 12:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to take his calls then just don't answer and if you don't want to hear his voice then delete his messages before listening to them and don't feel like you're being rude because you don't like him so you shouldn't talk to him and just find a different guy that will treat you with respect and not use you for any reasons because I know that you deserve the best so don't settle for anything less!! best of luck!! :)
2006-12-02 05:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with his picture take it and hang it on the wall then scream at him as load as u can u hurt me damn u then try hit him with anything (his picture)...That's confidante u and give u more self respect to forget and get over him.....and im sorry for your mam
2006-12-02 05:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Joes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't answer... get with any family members or friends to hang out ... stay busy, whether it's reading, being creative .... but remember you can be a strong person ..don't let on person ruin your day/life...... there are too good apples and sometimes we gotta weed out the bad first.
sorry you lost ya mom... but you still have her in your heart... so talk/or write to her... just to get it off ya chest.
just stay focused on everything but ya ex. because he is just that. (ya ex)
2006-12-02 05:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Void him all the way don't take his calls or anything. If he comes to your door don't answer it. He just found out he can't use all women so he knows he can you. Don't let him. Tell him no way buddy.
2006-12-02 05:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay...and you don't have to take his calls It might be fair, however, to let him know that you are no longer interested in talking with him and that he should stop calling you.
2006-12-02 05:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him if you can help it. Do you have any friends or siblings? They might be surprised and flattered if you tell them your worries--and they'll probably be the best help.
2006-12-02 05:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Nadja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋