Like couples. The guy can tell the girl what she can and can't wear, who she can and can't talk to. When she can and can't go out. But guys can do whatever they want. It doesn't matter what we say they will still do it. Alot of the time they will do the total obisite of what we say just to piss us off. Like stay out all night, get drunk alot. If we was to do that after they told us not to we are sluts and everything else. And we also are cheaters. I just don't get it. How is that fair?
2006-12-02 04:58:28 · 22 answers · asked by Hugs and Kisses 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO this is not s good thing for guys to do they don't have the right to do that he is just a controlling freak dump him girl you are a free woman and don't let any guy no matter how much you love him or how much he says he loves you just don't fall for it OK
another thing they ether want you to wear something skin tight for him to see or something SO loose so nobody can see your body figure
and if you he doesn't want you to talk to someone it is because he knows he has a good girl and don't wanna loose her!
so no they don't have the right to do that
no guy in the world does
2006-12-02 05:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What on earth are you talking about? Guys get pushed around all the time by women! That's not right either, because people should have respect for each other and try to make each other happy. But anyway, if you're with a guy like that, I think you should consider dumping him. You shouldn't generalize in any case. Good luck!
2006-12-02 05:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not fair and it's not the way it works in a healthy relationship. If you are in a relationship with a guy who tries to control what you wear and when you can and can't go out, etc., then you need to get the hell out as fast as you can. It will only get worse with time.
Trust and respect are the foundation of a healthy relationship.
2006-12-02 05:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If guy tries to control you..DUMP HIM. sooner or later you will do it...sooner is better :)
Also, in my relationship..my BF tried to do that with me and I said; "I am adult enough to know "what-to-do" so stop treating me like a kid ..my mama is already done it and I am sick of it "
He stopped it and he doesnot do it anymore but he does it once a while and I just 'pause' then he realizes and says ...it's a advise ONLY " ...am I am like WHATEVER DUDE
So , in realtionship never let the other person control you- you have been control by many and you need another person to come and tell you what to do ...you are smart enough to make the right choices
2006-12-02 05:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't know what you're talking about honestly.
Some guys do that, not ALL. Some girls do that to guys too!
Lastly, it takes two people to do this. You can't just blame one for bossing around the other. That other person gets blame too for allowing themself to be bossed!
2006-12-02 05:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Edward 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't if your an adult or not but you need to realize nobody can tell anybody what they can and can't do. You need to become more independent. Take a breather from this guy and live life for yourself for awhile.
2006-12-02 05:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're in this kind of relationship. GET OUT. I wouldn't dream of telling my gf what she can or cant wear, or who she can talk to, or when she can go out. My gf shows me the same respect.
She trusts me, and I trust her.
2006-12-02 05:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Vince 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, guys have something you call an ego!!!! they want to be the boss! Life is unfair so we cloud just aswell get used to it. it is not fair but if my bf would do that i would break-up with him becuase i want someone who would love me and who would take care of me not someone who want to rule over me!!! i would not listen to him if he does not listen to me!!! good luck
2006-12-02 05:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys have a problem with there egos and feeling that they need to control things that is in their nature and it is something that is hard fo rthem to fight. It is hard for us to handle that but it is how they work and we need to keep them in line and let them know how we feel. But your situation sounds extreme and you are worth more than what this guy is seeing you as.
2006-12-02 05:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay H 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's not. A real relationship is a two-way road not one!
2006-12-02 05:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by a h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋