I'm really good friends with this guy named Matt. We've been friends for about 6 years and for 4 years I've been in love with him. I notice all the flaws: his overbite, his funny new haircut, he's ungrateful, he officially has lost his 8-pack (I know, not that bad.), and at the same time, though, he's sweet. I really, really hate him but I still love him.
There was a dance yesterday and he kept dancing with these skanks; that also bothers me. But still, he danced with me and it made me realize that I don't NEED him but I would do almost anything for him.
Also, at a party after that dance, a big group of us had a suprise party for a friend and he was sweet there too but then he kept showing off on a weight set downstairs. Was he trying to impress me or something? (It was just him and I in the basement at that time)
Is he messing with my head? Is there any remote chance that he even likes me? Should I just go for it? What am I supposed to do?
2006-12-02 04:39:12 · 14 answers · asked by sabotagestrikexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried to move on for the past two years and he's just THERE. I've gone out with 1 other guy and it didn't work out after about 8 months... and I just don't want to mess up my friendship with him!
And I mean we are BEST friends. We share almost everything (excluding who we like, obviously); we sleepover each other's houses, we have lockers next to each other, we ALWAYS get each other gifts, we're always a shoulder to cry on, we're always ready with some extra cash, we're always there for each other in a sense. And I love the kid.
2006-12-02 04:50:14 · update #1
Um, I'm not "coming out of the closet", dear. I'm a girl. Thanks.
I may have to put this in caps for others to notice: I. AM. A. GIRL.
Thanks. ^^ (I should really get a different screename)
2006-12-02 04:57:35 · update #2
Please don't misinterprit what I just said.
I meant to say: Matt's a guy and I'm a girl, so I am not coming out of the closet.
Not that girls cannot come out of the closet.
2006-12-02 05:03:26 · update #3
You need to ask him directly.
2006-12-02 04:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's dancing with skanks he's not really that into you, my advice your obviously a teenager, stay away from him and other guys right now I know easier said then done and you may not believe what Im about to say but it's the truth. Guys your age are NOT interested in a long term think they may try it out but it will not last they have this ridiculas thing in my opinion WRONG with their head but they want to explore many avenues and you should too a bit, that way you'll know more what you like what you dont and will be able to pick a better long term partner
2006-12-02 12:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you should go for it. it dosent hurt to try. And from what you are telling me about him showing off. Well sweets if it was just you and him down there then yes he was trying to impress you. And i do believe that he is messing with you head. So this is what you do, start to flirt with him, if he gets you are flirting with him then, he will most likely flirt back if he likes you. But if he doesnt then he wont. If you need anymore help then email me at sissyangel22592@aol.com or chuckiemurphy@yahoo.com
Aimee
2006-12-02 12:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down, get a peice of paper and rite down all the things that r worthwhle bout this guy. then all the flaaws. then all the reasons u like him. then all the signs that he likes u. go over ur lists a few times. that shood help or u can take a chance and as him out. worst he can do is ignore u, reject u, and tell all his his friends.
2006-12-02 12:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult coming out to your best friend when in high school I came out to my friend and he well lets just say we are no longer friends but he never acted how you say your friend matt does.
Tell him that you are gay, or bi, and let him know that you like hanging out with him but make sure it doesn't bother him. Don't allow fear to keep you from being yourself. If I was in that situation then I would also say that I like him. I have friends that are guys and they are cool with me just be truthful to Matt and yourself.
2006-12-02 12:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by valkesa_83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ur in love with him. You just seem to want what's best fr him. You see him dancing with skanks, your reaction isnt good because well, skanks arent good. He was probably showing off to you because he likes you.
2006-12-02 12:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knows you are crazy about him.
If you want this undecisiveness to end then ask him.
Be prepared for a no and if you get yes then the rest is gravy.
2006-12-02 12:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be better off to just move on. Date a few others and see how you feel about him later.
2006-12-02 12:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's your his "good" friend, he shouldn't say mean things if he doesn't like you.(when you go for it) If you love him so much go for it!
2006-12-02 12:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Sounds like he does.
2006-12-02 12:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋