theres this one girl who likes me, and i like her too. but were not yet couples, but close. i gathered info about her and i found out she likes things that i dont, and she has a band. me, a simple guy who doesnt have sports, nor knows how to play any instruments, think that i wouldnt be best for her. im totally different, i like japanese music from animes, and she likes OPM's(philippine music). were totally oposite. so should i still go for it? should i get her as a girlfriend?
2006-12-02 04:26:37 · 12 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not?
people with different interests and hobbies have a lot more to talk about when they are together..
2006-12-02 04:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationships, opposities do attract - i like to cuddle after sex but my boy firend wants to sleep - i like butter - i dont like garlic, my boyfirend does - if you and that person does not have differences then the whole union would not be as interesting - you see, the trick of it all is that in a relationship, you have to make room for compromising - its simple - a relationship is all about relating on the same ship but as the same time you have to be submissive - based upon what you mentioned, i dont see anything wrong with her except the fact that she has a "PERSONALITY" she is an individual and you are too - i say give it a world!
2006-12-02 04:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by thetruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it! You will never know unless you try. Maybe she will like some of your tastes or you hers. A relationship is not based on having the same likes and dislikes. That would be quite boring. Go for it!
2006-12-02 04:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um ya of course i think u should it doesn't matter if u don't like the same things the thing that matters is for u 2 to get along really good
well good luck and have fun in the future =D
2006-12-02 04:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by mer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Opposites can really work.. and then sometimes they don't.. only you really know. You say that she likes you and you like her, so what is there to lose? You can both learn from each other, right?
2006-12-02 04:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes never heard the old saying opposite attract....
2006-12-02 04:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her as a girlfriend? how about getting to know her and eventually the boyfriend/girlfriend thing will just happen dont try to force it.
2006-12-02 04:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by johnjd_cmu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i say go for you can only but try .if it does not work out you not loss any thing as you only live once.
2006-12-02 04:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try it out and see if it works...if it doesnt then at least you tried
2006-12-02 04:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by iamloved387 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to. the worst she can do is reject u then tell her friends
2006-12-02 04:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋