i lied to my girlfriend?

Question

i lied to her about the smallest thing she has guy friends i got jealous so i talked to women just as friends but i lied about it she said she needs a break from me and that i need to gain her trust back. How long does it normally take ladies before you can forgive your man is and is there anything i can do or do i just have to wait around and watch the paint dry on the wall

Answer 1

Why did you lie? Specifically what did you lie about? Why can she talk to guys and you not talk to women? Maybe you need to rethink that relationship.

Answer 2

Ok first of all you shouldn't hve lied and i know you probably have noticed that. I'm just going to come from experience, this same thing has happened to me. If your girlfriend really truely loves you no matter who her male friends are she won't be attracted to them, she only sees you, and if she realizes that and she knows that you love her the same she really wouldn't have gotten mad if you had female friends but there is a limit you can go with them. You really could have told her straight up. All you have to do is show her that she can trust you, in every female that's different though. It really depends on her and personality, basically 9 times out of 10 if she cares she'll see it no worries. Just be patient and don't push the issue. Make sure you two still hang out and stuff and treat her the same way or better than before to keep her interest. I promise you it'll work out if it's true.

Answer 3

How dare you! Jealousy gets you nowhere. If she's not cheating on you then what the heck is there to be jealous about...? Especially if she new her friends before she met you. You did a stupid and shallow thing by goin and talkin to girls JUST for the purpose of getting even. Thats gay. You should have just left it alone, and everythin would have been fine. A girls feelings are sensitive and complicated. She'll be mad for a while best just figure out real quick if theres a future in it.... cause if not you'll be waiting for a while... good luck.

Answer 4

Don't just wait around! If you do that she will think that you don't care anymore, but you do need to give her a little space. For example don't call her but if you see her somewhere talk to her in person. Let her know exactly how you are feeling and how much you miss her.
PS. Women always love to be surprised with a nice dozen of roses with a box of chocolates !

Answer 5

i'd say try you hardest to get some one on one time together and tell her your feeling, be like I know you need time but I want you to know something that you need to know, and tell her why you did what you did and what you learned from it and always explain you honast desire to change the situation by not doing it again and that it wont, in the end i'd be sure to point out that if she expect you to behave a certain way doesnt she think you deserve the same respect and if not you dont really need to be disrespected either eventualy it will get to you and that isnt love anyways she should be willing to stop her end to, good Luck ps someone said to me once relationships arent 50/50 it takes 100% from both of you, Good Luck KIMBUR

Answer 6

U must be pretty young(no offense). you gotta lotta road ahead of you young man. When they say this, it's usually time to get u another on the side and if she don't get back 2 u soon enough....start seeing the other more. Make her chase u homie but never, ever let the left hand know what the right hand is doing.....ever!!!

Answer 7

it depends on how serious she is about you,now u say she had male friends also,now why isnt she wrong?mayb that is an excuse for her to b with 1 of her male friends!and if she does love u and isnt that way at all 2 days is the most she could go pass without talking to u but she really wants to talk right now.us girls have a thing about making our men suffer!

Answer 8

It's gonna take some time. Just keep apologizing and telling her how much you care for her and miss her. But also give her a little bit of space, don't overcrowd her. It may take a little bit of time but as long as you behave yourself she'll probably come back to you. Good luck and be patient.

Answer 9

let the paint dry, if you try to make a move right away she might retaliate in the way you least expect. let her breath some, and if she decides to come back than good for you, if she doesnt, you shouldn't have lied in the first place...always remember: A GOOD RELTIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST!!!!!

Answer 10

Shame on you. Lying is bad. Would you like to be lied to? How long would it take for you to forgive someone for lying? Now double that and give your girlfriend that much time. Don't be lying.