my girlfriend said that for the past 2 years, she never really wanted me, but she just needs me... she can't live without me.. but she said she wanted to.... i really dont get it..
2006-12-02 04:08:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she said she doesnt really want me, but she needs me.. she said she wants to be loved, but not get hurt, she just says that without me in her life she'd be nothing.. but she doesnt want me to stay in her life since i rarely see her anymore
2006-12-02 04:13:09 · update #1
stop being a doormat.
2006-12-02 04:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious to me, that your girlfriend does not Love You. Pretty selfish also. Superficial, and fills her own needs before all others. Look around,get out of this relationship it will only hurt you more. She can't live without you because she has always had someone in her life that took care of her. Well your Not her Mother or her Father, and the sooner you put your relationship into the correct category, you are nothing but a Warm Security Blanket. Is that how you want to be viewed by the world? Move on I would have left the minute those words were spoken to me.Take Pride in yourself, you deserve much better! -
2006-12-02 12:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is just using you. You need to take pride in yourself & move on without her. There are many women out here that would treat you with the respect you deserve from a real girlfriend.
Your girlfriend is selfish & conceited.
2006-12-02 12:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very honest, but a bit pathetic, and I would maybe steer clear of people like this. She may need some counseling or therapy. Life is way too short to be with people that don't want and love you.
2006-12-02 12:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by oceansnsunsets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!! It is called being male or female dependent. EXAMPLE you have another partner before you get another one, kind of like a job.
2006-12-02 12:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by unclewewill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just had it with being in love she just want to be loved and she will love you in her heart with out you knowing (its like she was hurt in the past she is just soured )
2006-12-02 12:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she wants the comfort zone, but not the emotional zone.
It is possible, but perplexing
2006-12-02 12:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is just using you.
2006-12-02 12:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by mex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes yes just like you would need sex from your girl but not want her i understand
2006-12-02 12:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't make it finatually with out you she's using you for your money man
2006-12-02 12:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Great one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means that she loves you and she can't do without u
2006-12-02 12:11:15 · answer #11 · answered by lil babe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋