Me and this boy have been dating for 1 year and 3 months (to be exact). We both love eachother very dearly and have been through a lot together. He finally moved out of his home and he started having so much fun with this new freedom that his mom never let him have, so he started going out with his friends a lot. Finally, a week ago, we broke up because he wanted to experience this freedom and felt like I was tieing him down. He asked me back out a couple of days ago (wednesday) because he said that is not what he truly wanted. He wants to be with me and have a good time, and that as soon as he went out without me, he hated it. We have had 2 snow days in a row, and he has not called me once. I don't know what to think right now...We both love eachother, but doesn't it seem like if he was really into me he would at least try to call me? (P.S. he is at his friends house and he got snowed in there..and he does not have a cell phone.)
2006-12-02 04:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also: quick note--
It's not just as easy as breaking up with him, because I feel a really deep connection with him. We have had very intimate moments, and I don't feel like it needs to end.
2006-12-02 04:08:41 · update #1
Heyy, maybe he doesnt love you the way he used to. There are plenty of other guys out there for you, you just have to find one that doesnt want to use you just for a bit and then dump you when he wants to go out and have fun. But.. if you really think he still loves you , you can keep trying and maybe comfront him and see where your relationship stands. Good luck though and hope he really does love you.
2006-12-02 04:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I think that you should call him and try to sort things out between you and him. I don't know why you guys broke up in the first place and then you went out again. I think if this doesn't work out try and find another man because didn't he say you were " tieing him down'' Well GOOD LUCK and I hope you make the right decision:-)
2006-12-02 04:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he finally calls and decide if he is being really honest with you and if he feels as strongly about you as you do about him. It could be that he likes you a lot but just isn't ready for a constant relationship.
2006-12-02 04:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by unclebirchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds that as long as you are convenient for sex that's all he really cares about. When it comes to going out and actually doing things together then you're cramping his style. Think hard about this fella I fear he's using you.
2006-12-02 04:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him for the intimate moments and turn him into your scrump buddy. Then find someone else that will treasure you.
2006-12-02 04:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fell for someone and now he cheating on you. move on you can do better. the next boy you pick take the relationship slower.
2006-12-02 04:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... it seems like he just wants to be able to fool around with out you to stop him. but you are the one who knows him.
2006-12-02 04:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should jus sit him and talk or jus get ova it and start dating some one else jus start ona new leaf
2006-12-02 04:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Daisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone wants to be wanted....maybe the things he wants and what you want are not on the same page....turn that page...lots of books to read!
2006-12-02 04:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for get the numpty,theres a prince out there for you...find him.....
2006-12-02 04:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋