All the girls with bf have boobs and I don't I'm 14 for god sake. I get measured and I turn out to be an A cup but every time I try one on there seems to be too much room in the cup if you know what I mean. What makes your boobs grow anyway? I am in high school now I am 14 why am I the only girl that doesn't have boobs? There are tiny little 5th and 6th grades with bigger boobs than mine, I mean really what's up with that? How can I be pretty? I really like this guy but why should I even bother if I got no boobs what so ever. I have never dated a guy before and I have never had one ask me out either. Why do guys not like me? give it to my straight is it because I don't talk to them enough or because I don't have any boobs? If you have any advice about what please tell me.
2006-12-02 04:06:34 · 23 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's ok..you are just a late bloomer..you will be fine..we all thought the same things when we were your age (us late bloomers that is) and dear, your boobs will never define who you are as a human being so try not to worry about it so much eh?
ps they lke legs and the butt too lol
2006-12-02 04:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all having bigger boobs does NOT make you pretty .There are plenty I mean PLENTY of ugly girls out there with them.Second give yourself a chance your only 14 and are still developing.I didn't get mine until I was 16 and now I am a d-cup.It could also be your genetics.Look at the women in your family.What are there sizes,I mean that's probably your best source as to how much cleavage you'll get.So don't worry your still growing.And third of all whoever this guy is forget about him because if you can't see your own beauty then how do you expect him too as well.Low self-esteem is very unattractive. Stop worrying what others see in you and start loving yourself.
2006-12-02 12:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria05 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question... Boobs are not the only thing on a guys mind. Nor should it be the only thing on your mind. As for your age and if you've not developed boobs, you still have time to grow them. A question you should ask yourself however is, what size breasts do the rest of your family have? They are usually a moderate indication of what size breasts you will have. I mean if your whole family is very petite and small breasted, the chance of you have a huge DD's are highly unlikely. If by chance the rest of your family are all EEE's then the likely hood of you having bigger breasts is. Its all a matter of perspective, have you ever seen any high fashion models with breast bigger then C cups, not very likely, most are small B's or A's. If however you're looking over lingerie models then yes they have larger breasts as well as Playboy playmates. Its all a matter of what look you are going for and what type of guy you are pursuing. There are definitely guys who are "boob" men but then again in the world there are guys who are "***" men. I'd say talk a little more, be more social and gregarious and you might just find yourself a man who likes you for who you are and what you look like.
2006-12-02 12:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by NeverStopQuestioning 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one your are a natural growing girl and haven't developed yet. But not all guys like big boobs some just like girls the way they are. See my gf doesn't have big boobs abd she's about your size and she's 22 and I love her for what she is not how she looks. So maybe when your fully developed your boobs will grow bigger but don't worry about teh guys they will come around, sometimes it take time. But if I was you I would just live my lie and don't worry pretty soon you will ahve a bf who will make you forget all this. So go to school functions, games and other activities especially the one's that take you out of towwwwn. Never know the guy your looking for may live in an other town. SO don't worry enjoy life.
2006-12-02 12:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello thats not the only thing guys like for one, for two most of the things they really like they never say because you would be freaked out especially at your age. also look your normal for you age what makes them grow well being older than 14 and weight there only fat anyways and i'm telling you guys like them but when it comes down to it wether your a d cup or a cup the main attraction is still there pretty much guys will do and take almost anything, now some guys do like some things more than others or have fetishes like girls do to, dont worry when you old enough to get serious will anyone you'll have matured body wise, beleive me I know being a teenager feels like everything takes forever but only a couple years after being one you'll already be wishing you were one again so just take it easy and enjoy this time while you can and dont waste any more time caring about what a some stupid guy thinks just pay attention to the ones who like you for who you are ok, Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-12-02 12:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur boobs will grow faster u need not worry abt them but if u r in such a hurry then u can use the creams they say that makes boobs bigger but i advice u not to use them. And if a guy is more interested on ur boobs then he aint real coz all he will want is to get u in bed with him. If u want a guy then look for the one who will give u real ove not just sex. there will come the day when u will have a guy so no need the hurry.
2006-12-02 12:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol most guys love boobs, but that's not everything what they look for. It's just a guy thing, ya know?
You're only 14, by the time you're 15 or 16 you'll have bigger boobs. Breast development during puberty doesn't stop until the girl is like 15 or 16 years old.
If it's really bothering you, maybe you can get like stuff some cotton puffs in your bra or get a pushup bra. I think a pushup bra is to enhance cleavage, but I'm not a bra expert lol
It'll just take time.
2006-12-02 12:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not so much a girl's looks as her intelligence and personality! You said yourself you don't talk to guys enough.. you have to be comfortable with yourself and that's what makes you attractive. Know and be confident when you look in the mirror that you like yourself, is the first step. As far as boobs, you may just be a late bloomer, I know I was. That's not everything that a good guy (the kind you want!) looks at. But at your age, maybe... cuz they're immature
2006-12-02 12:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Hey I'm 14 too. I am a size A 34 but it fits just fine for me.
Boys at young ages I think don't really want someone to love. U know like they just want you....sometimes, like u said, because of the physical body features, and sometimes because u are "fine", or maybe sometimes because they heard that u have sex so they want to try to get some from u. But does it really matter what boys think? Are u smart? Are u funny? Do u have friends? Do u believe in God, and if u do, do u believe that he loves u? Don't u have parents, or a guardian who cares about u. Boys are here to help women, make babies, and make some of us happy. Women, to me have more responsibility. A man may say he wants to finally have a baby with u but it's not up to him, YOU have to carry the child of at least 9 months, YOU have to go through the pain of having it. He does nothing to make the baby but get the pleasure...think about that and if you have any more questions, then email me.
divaliciouslb@yahoo.com
2006-12-02 12:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by ~*!!*~Chocolatte Latte~*!!*~ 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boobs date back to primitive times, when humans are just beginning to develop brains bigger than apes. Back then, people acted like dogs and other animals, they based their mating habits on physical attributes such as smell (armpit hair to catch sweat), because they didn’t know any better. In modern society, where people have advertisements that point out that people who have boobs is superior to those without them, it could be very discouraging for you if you don’t have boobs. Don’t worry about it, someone will eventually come along who likes you for other qualities, such as being funny, smart, helpful, nice, etc.
2006-12-04 01:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by oofagook 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not every man in the world has the same fetish for the same part. Their are guys who like feet, ***, legs, and other parts. And besides why should you change yourself based on what society says your supposed to look? When you change yourself you change everyone and everything around you. If you want to stand out and get noticed go for something that will make an impact like a tattoo or piercing. Never bow down to society, never bow down to anyone.
2006-12-02 12:16:55 · answer #11 · answered by Lie8Les 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋