my bf always promise to do something and afterwards he change his mind, he never do exactly what he tells me. i am a person, whenever you say something to me, i trust you will do it. but just don't lie to me. now he never do what he say, my question is what i should do to let him know that i am no one for him to take advantage with. he know i love him, and with that excuse he think he can take advantage of me. what i can do to let him know that i am no one to let him bully. talking to him is waste of time, because he never listen to me. thanks for help me.
2006-12-02 04:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shine him on, this wont work.
2006-12-02 04:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I can say guys are simple. He is simply taking you for granted. Its an old story. You need to change it so he realizes that he needs to work harder on making YOU happy. Break up with him and see what happens next. If he starts trying you will know its real. If not you will know it's not. Odds are he will suddenly realize what he needs to.
2006-12-02 04:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he suffers from depression and when he go do what he promises do to then he burns out at the fact of having to do some thing.Also could it be beause he's broke, not being able to afford it.
2006-12-02 04:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got you beat ..plus if a man lies ..there is no way no how you going to change him..it has never been done ..once a liar always a liar..you would have to learn to deal with it ..as you said talking to him is waist of time..
i quite agree....I can see a bumpy ride
2006-12-02 04:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him just like you told us. say "hey, I'm really tired of you making promises and then going back on them". Tell him that making promises is not something he should do lightly or no one will ever trust him.
2006-12-02 04:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a one way road to break up he sound like he has no ambition to do anything if he backs out on every thing he says you might want to get away from that dude he's gonna be a low life
2006-12-02 04:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he takes advantage because you let him. Grow some balls, girl!
2006-12-02 04:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you said in the question.
2006-12-02 04:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threatin breaking up with him if he continues to keep breaking his word.
2006-12-02 04:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think YOu must talk to him!!...^_^
You must TELL that bustard that Your not a TOY!!
GO, DO IT GAL!!
DO IT!!!
2006-12-02 04:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋