i want to be with some one, how has kids. But i dont no weather or not just to go for it an trust him, or i sould i back off an and forget about him?
2006-12-02 03:57:50 · 20 answers · asked by Reanne lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sweetheart you are in a conundrum! If you like his "children" and you like him, give it a shot, what have You got to loose! But remember, when children are involved, they come first! Always! You can do what you want with him, but never,never hurt his children. OK? Merry Christmas
2006-12-02 04:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO you like kids? If you don't you have to run because the kids come first. Then there is the Child Support question. There are many things I can't do because I have to pay Child Support. Is that a problem for you? If the relationship becomes serious you will have to go without things not to mention visitation. When you want to go out & can't because he has the kids, what are you going to do?
2006-12-02 04:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about him! Do you see a future? It is complicated when kids are involved because you also have to think of whats best for them, but if you think this guy is the one go for it! You cant help who you fall for and your not supposed to!
2006-12-02 04:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by nuttynat_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he has kids. Is he still married though? His kids will be fine if all the adults treat them well- one day no doubt they will have relationship dilemmas of their own. If you like the guy- go for it! Take it slowly and see how it goes.
2006-12-02 04:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by brainlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do so many questions on here have these either/or black and white scenarios? What is the matter with letting it ride for a while and seeing which way the ball is going to bounce? Maybe you don't have to do anything right now.
2006-12-02 04:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether or not just to go for it.
I want to be with someone who has kids, but i don't know whether or not just to go for it and trust him? Should I back off and forget about him (!)
if he has kids, and a partner, leave well enough alone.!
2006-12-02 04:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Cy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how does him having kids have any thing to do with trusting him? im sorry, i didnt connect the two.. and so what if he does have kids? you dont have to marry the guy and be a step parent... i get the feeling thats whats really bothering you.....
2006-12-02 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by BUTTERFLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating someone with children has more responsibilities than just dating. Be prepared for all the crazy quirks that come with having children, its a huge committment if your ready to make it, go for it, if not, move on.
2006-12-02 04:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to matter what anyone tells u. but here goes...having a relationship with someone is hard. having a relationship with someone, his kids, his xwife, his x in laws....is tough. kids equals x in laws. u will have to pick them up from xwife, her moms etc. u are marrying his x wife too. do u love her??? do u love her mom and dad? more importantly does his kids love u? does his x wife love u? and so on..
2006-12-02 04:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by REALLY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his kids will and should come first. if you don't mind that then go ahead and do something about it. if you are the jealous type and will resent the time he spends with his kids then leave him alone. he doesn't need the pressure.
2006-12-02 04:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by magicalle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋