Women and cheating. How many women cheat and what should guys do?

Question

It is something that is a pervasive topic and the more I talk about it the more I think about it. During a conversation with a female friend she angrily stated that all men cheat and all men are dogs and women are only supportive of these men and no man deserves it. After I was able to get my point in, I asked who are these men cheating with? She paused for a moment and said "Hoochies". I nodded and asked do any of these hoochies have boyfriends? and she snapped "Probably" and then I asked... Wouldn't that make those women cheaters!? She paused, stared at me with a dirty look and then admitted that "some" women cheat but it is only to get back at a man for cheating or he is neglecting her. I asked her if she has ever cheated on a boyfriend and she said about half of them. Surprised I asked if another female friend did and she admitted to cheating on ALL of her boyfriends either by sharing her heart, thoughts or sex acts (making out, grinding, oral and hand jobs are still cheating).

I also saw an alarming statistic. Thats 30% of all children DNA tested do not belong to the man assumed to be the biological father. not 1% or 5%. Nearly 1 in 3. Thats almost like if every man in this country who has three kids, one of them is almost guaranteed not to be his. Whats up with this?

Answer 1

let me start off by saying that im 28 and i have never cheated...but i do think that alot of women do cheat...its just that more men get caught. and i think alot of times women cheat more emotionally than physically. often times women confide in another man about the things her man is or isnt doing. then the energy and trust she starts putting into this man leads to the emotional cheating turning physical.

Answer 2

If a women cheats on a man well she is lowering her standrards, everyone would look at her in diapointment, then they will call her names and etc... in the other hand, if a man cheats on a women its as its normal, some say oh well things happen for a reason or they would just blame the women. What can men do when a women cheats on them? Face the problem and think about an answer to her actions why she did it was it worth it? would u give her a second change? Think about it, and dont go over to the guy and claim your girl, no its not his fault it was hers. He should think about the things she put at risk, and you wil be better off without her now that you know wat type of girl she is and others will also know. I hope that helps answer your question.

Answer 3

when you find the right person it will be only that person if there is cheating, the relationship is over. it was over long befor the act ocured. (rant time) for the life of me i cant figure out why people start a relationship of with someone who is allready involved with someone? do we think this person wont do it to us?why are we so special? all of us thinks that the sun rises and sets on our rear ends. but the fact is once a cheat always a cheat. i would run to the nearest clinic and get tested. and tell the other person GOOD BYE

Answer 4

I can't say how many women cheat, but I know that if a woman cheats on a man, he should leave her immediately. No matter what the situation, there is absolutely no reason someone should stay with a cheater.

Answer 5

I am a firm believer that a HAPPY man or woman will not cheat. If they do, there is something underlying in the relationship that they may not be aware of. Either way, if you are even thinking of cheating, you need to re-evaluate the relationship

Answer 6

all I know is girls today are becoming increasingly immoral and valueless but generally I believe the nature of women is to be faithful and committed and thru the course of many boyfriends cheating and the general attitude on relationships in todays society its like if you cant beat them join um type thing, sad but true. I dont generally think at heart they like it, they just get cought up in it and when you get to the age range where popularity and stuff like that arent so prevelent in your life, you end up doing what you heart desires, and become more faithful to yourself. It just takes time and experience to get there, although some girls just plain are like that but not the general population, Kimbur

Answer 7

Sounds like she's thinking more with her OVARIES than she is with her BRAINS!
I think the concept of feminism just gets out of hand with some women to the point that many think a woman can do no wrong. There's a LOT of ladies out there like that.
Frankly, it always cracked me up how many women are flirtatious as hell, but ALSO will take issue with their own guy for being that flirtatious. Sounds like having your cake and eating it too.

Answer 8

Both Men and Women cheat. For the same reason and for different reasons.

Answer 9

You are both wrong and you are both right.

There are two ways men pass their genes into the world. They either have sex with many inferior women and don't stick around afterward or they find one good woman, marry her and raise the children to become superior adults with tremendous advantages over the kids that survive from the other way.

Inferior men only do it the first way. Their genes are inferior and they are mostly warm bodies as far as society is concerned. Men with good genes seek to do it the second way. If they can't find a good woman, they do it the first way. Good men NEVER stick around with inferior women because it would be a major disaster for their line. Not only do their good genes mix with ones that are inferior, but it takes TWO people to raise those children in the type of environment he is after. Inferior women are not capable of this. The only thing they are good for is whoring themselves out to evil men.

These are the type of women you are talking about. And they are mostly separate from the rest of society. The two types of people don't mix much. Normal women are not like that. Normal women statistically, have 2.2 partners over their lifetime. They get married, have children and raise them. So do the men they are with.

The point here is that it is very, very, VERY important that the two types of people not mix. If a good woman is stupid enough to be with an inferior man in any capacity, her life is over. Likely, she will have children (inferior men don't use birth control) and that's it. Forever after, she belongs to that group, with all that implies....poverty, f-edupness, abuse, depravity, sickness.....hopelessness.

But, for a man, it is almost as bad. The natural way is for the man, if he accidentally mixes genes with a woman like this, is for him to just leave. But, our society, in its current form, does not allow that. He becomes a slave to the screwed up situation that results. Worse, all men become slaves to the screwed up people in our society through the cancer of socialism. Welfare means that the good material support the bad, who then grow large and fat, destroying society from within. The natural limits of this dysfunctional behavior are removed at the cost those people in this world who actually have value. That is a very bad thing. And either our culture cuts it the hell out or we are majorly screwed in the long term.

But basically, the issue for men and women here is correctly identifying who is who and discriminating against those who are scum. The consequences of not doing this are.....dire.

Answer 10

My friend and I were talking about this the other day, and honestly we thought that women cheat more often than men. Both of us have cheated on several of our boyfriends, yet we've never had boyfriends cheat on us.