we went out for about 5 months, and when i broke up with him, he started to cry!!!! i want to be friends but wouldnt it be awkward??
please help!
2006-12-02 03:52:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him alone. You don't break someone's heart and then torture them trying to fix it. Leave the guy alone.
2006-12-02 03:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it wouldnt just tell him that u didnt mean to hurt his feeling but that u would be lieing to himand u if u stayed together that u didnt see him as ur bf but as a friend and u value his friendship more and would like to maintain a friendship.ive been friends with all my x's and this alwayz worked for me.just give hime sum time b4 u talk to him he is still hurt guyz that cry r very rare this can end up being one of ur best friends
2006-12-02 11:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone, you are leading him on to think there may be potential to reconcile and that is just plain inconsiderate of his feelings. You already broke up with him, let him go and heal in his own way and move on!!
2006-12-02 11:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him for now. Just give him some space. The more you keep in contact with him, the more he'll want you back. Give him time. Maybe oneday you'll be friends again.
2006-12-02 11:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by SAMANTHA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to just leave him alone.. why did u break up in the first place.. He has a broken heart im sure.. u need to give him time to heal.. Im sure it wasnt an easy task for u to do.. it will all become better
2006-12-02 11:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u don`t love him anymore i think you should leave it alone....probably,he was so in loved with u...that he wasn`t expecting a broke up.. If u still Love him..i think you should do the possible to return to him..He cryed because he was very very very in loved with u...boys don`t cry usually..
2006-12-02 11:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by andreea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be only one way to make him happy, getting back together with him. I don't think you want that. Don't do it just to make him happy, thats not good for either one of you. Make a clean break and don't look back.
2006-12-02 11:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Steve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. there should be a reason for the break up, right? men doesn't like women ditching them. may be he just want to get you back and then ditch you. they would do anything to satisfy their ego. leave him alone. he may get somebody else to mend his feelings. OR if you really care for him, go back to him
2006-12-02 11:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by kaj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best is to leave him alone,to give him some time to get over it. Good Luck-
2006-12-02 11:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone for a while, let him get himself together, let the awkwardness fade away, then maybe you guys can be friends
2006-12-02 11:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by rush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to stay away. If you have any contact with him it will give him hope that you might get back together even if that is not your intention at all.
2006-12-02 11:56:39 · answer #11 · answered by Best DJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋