is it normal for your parents to tell you your pretty and guys tell you diffrent?

Question

im short have blond streeks in my brown hair and guys hate me (execpt for the geeks)

Answer 1

Well thats how parents are, I can't think of any reason why a parent would tell a child that they are ugly...and hey don't knock the geeks they will be rich someday working for some computer company or something.

Answer 2

I was never the most popular girl in school, of coarse adults would tell me I was pretty, but I sure didnt feel that way. None of the cute guys would look at me, then I turned 18 and I was out of school, I met the most handsome guy ever, married him, but I get guys who approach me al the time, even a few old high school guys who didnt even know I exisited have hit on me, you'll outgrow that.
in school it is so serio typical for people to judge. wait till after h.s thats when the funs tartsd

Answer 3

yes becuase all parents think their children are adorable. my dad told me once when we were having the "becareful with boys talk" that parents want their teens to be not very attractive (especially girls) so that they wouldnt have to worry as much about them playing around with guys and then wow whadda ya know shes pregnant!

i wouldnt even worry about it. who cares what those guys think. at that age all they want is sex (well not all but thats what it comes down to). geeks are nicer and not all geeks are wierd eaither. i have a crush on this kinda geeky guy but hes not wierd and really smart and just oh so cool to me.

and if those guys hate you just because of your looks theyre not even worth it.

take care! :)

Answer 4

guys don't hate you for your appearance...some may just not find you attractive (that has nothing to do with you as a person, so there is no hate there).

Yes, parents will often be biased about their children's appearance or ability...but that is in part so the kids will feel good about themselves and know their parents love them for who and what they are...

Don't worry that a few guys aren't into you...plenty of others will be...give it time...like who you are...if you don't like you, why should anyone else?

Answer 5

Your parents are going to tell you are pretty no matter what you look like.. They have too, and yes guys will tell you different because guys are jerks and they will tell you exactly what they think but you do not have to believe them, that doesn't mean it's true either..

Answer 6

Youe probably beautiful and theguys that hate you are fags. And they can't stand it. Well just forget what the fags say and be yoruself and don't worry what people say about you. Because you keep listening to them your self esteem will go down. So enjoy life and don't worry about the boys because your looking for real men not boys.

Answer 7

if your a teen, guys dont often communicate how they really feel,,,,, why would you think guys hate you? im sure you are pretty,,, you just are too young to appreciate your beauty,,,, which is one of the ironies of life,,,, we appreciate ourselfs and have a clearer picture of ourselves,, as we age,,,, yet then we are putting on the winkle cream and wishing we had what we had in youth!
my daugh last year starting dating someone she had known all 4 years of high school, he had a crush on her the whole time, yet never told her!

Answer 8

yes thats normal about your parents deal but just don't worry about the guys cuz most are jerks and want the model types

Answer 9

parents will always consider u pretty and that's exactly how u'r supposed to feel also. if u feel pretty on the inside u will be pretty on the outside too. never forget to be u and to be proud of u

Answer 10

don't worry what the other guys say to you . You look good with your hair . The others jsut don't know how to give a compliment .That's all