you knew you could'nt make it to heaven if that happens because of the way you have led your life so far. and you just don't know what else to do next but live with this dreadful pain of paradox that seems to eat up the life in you from the inside leaving you empty and dead. i feel like a dead man walking. why me? when will all this take a turn for the better? i feel like the best part of me brokeoff from me a long time ago from that "incident" and i am almost, if not am positive it will never ever come back. can somebody help me oversome this problem im having cause i'm so very tired from the sadness, thinking, worrying, hopelessness , regrets, and the pain of it all
2006-12-02 03:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by listlessbutdiligent 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes I have....believe me............if you can seek the help of a professional and I hope they can help you.
2006-12-02 03:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by jazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe me. I have gone thr' it. In fact I am still in it now. Seeing a psychiatrist and taking some medication would help a little. It seems like the "incident" affected you a lot. Perhaps you would like to have someone you trust to talk about it or someone "outside" like a psychotherapist.
I know how painful it is just to be alive each day. I can't answer whether things will turn out better or not. But one thing I do know is that when there is life, there might still be a chance that things would get better. But when you are dead, it's game over.
Not matter what. LIVE! Take it as a great accomplishment for everyday you had live. Perhaps God hasn't decide it is time for you to join him yet.
2006-12-02 12:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tiburon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our thoughts are soo powerful that they can actually change the chemistry in our brains. Take responsiblity and see that you are doing this to yourself! You need to start by forgiving yourself and trying to catch yourself before you get into obsessive negative thought patterns. Know that you have a choice: to feel good or to feel horrible. Which one do you want and deserve in your life?? We are only victims if we want to be, stand up, put some music on and make a promise to yourself that you are intelligent, that you deserve better, that you are soo very strong and that from this day forward you will divert your mind from negative thoughts with excercise and hobbies.... stop dwelling on your faults and past, only YOU can make your life the best it can be.....
2006-12-02 12:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by sista-soul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every day of my boring, long, life. I have just decided I will live to be older than Methuselah in the Bible..he was 200 and something when he died..sometimes I think that is God's way of punishing me.Pain..pain of loneliness, fear, sadness, hopelessness, regrets. nobody cares, Nobody loves me...if I died..they would throw a party and then a week later not remember my name or that I existed..I just take up space. (except my dog would miss me and grieve himself to death). You wake up every morning and say "oh God another dark dreary dary". You go to bed saying I hope I die tonight but you pray you don't because you r afraid to face God with all you have done. Tomorrow is just another remake of my dark today..today is another remake of my dark yesterday..SOUND FAMILIAR.. In one paragraph..you described my whole life (except you didn't mention my suicide attempts).. You are not alone...hope this helps you know that
2006-12-02 12:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by chilover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling! i've been sick for a long time, been abused, neglected, lost my only true love, and was very bad when i was young, and want death, ask God for forgiveness and sin no more. then it is in your hands to get help or be miserable. but you will be forgiven. ya know, depression can cause so much pain. if i had gotten help a long time ago, i may not be so sick now
2006-12-02 11:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by brenda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always bear in mind that everything on earth is just passing. it will not be permanent, your sadness, hopelesness, will go away in due time provided you helpself get up and pick up the peices and get started all over again with a new life. you can make it happen. all you have to do is to trust GOD and yourself. you can do it. start now!!!!!
2006-12-02 11:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has that feeling
including me
i have that feeling when people make fun of me
at that moment i want to die
but then i think about my future
do i want to die
never get a chance to have kids, have a husband, and own my own house.
think about that
2006-12-02 12:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by so fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get a plan, you need to contact mental health professionals. or maybe do that anyway...dont have to feel that way all the time, theres help.
2006-12-02 11:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please call your doctor and explain the stressful situation and he may help you with medications for depression and refer you to a counselor ,YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL THAT WAY!!GOD BLESS!!
2006-12-02 12:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by skybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋