My boyfriend is going away to Hong Kong tomorrow and i feel like I'm losing my best friend. I love him so much and I'm really hurting now. Feel like theres not much point in anything without him. I know that's not a good attitude but I can't help feeling this way. Please help.
2006-12-02 03:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's an 8 mth job contract. We will stay friends but I'm not sure about being in a relationship. Do long distance relationships work? I would wait for him no problems. I've never met anyone like him.
2006-12-02 03:49:42 · update #1
You need to find yourself so you can survive without him.
2006-12-02 03:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you the way you love him, he will keep in touch with you, that contract will not mean that the relationship is over, love it not just about being together all the time, it's also about compromise, feelings, emotional proximity, devotion to this special person. Also, today there's Internet, web-cam, emails, you could visit him maybe 1 or 2 times during that 8 months if both really feel that way, I don't see any strong reason, if both love you each other, to end the relationship just because a 8 month contract in Hong Kong.
2006-12-02 13:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by erck78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he leaves for Hongkong, does this mean that he also leaves whatever you both have? if he leaves but the relationship remains, then I think you will only be physically apart but the bond of love and friendship will remain no matter how far the distance may be. parting always hurts specially when you love that person but life has to go on. besides, you are a lucky person because this age has invented the internet and distance no longer matters. besides, as the saying goes, ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER...
2006-12-02 11:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie, a broken heart is one tough thing to mend. but it does. time is the best healer. allow yourself time to grieve, don't listen to people who say you must talk about something else. the more you speak about it, the more you heal yourself. i know it's tough, i have been there myself and it is unfortunately a part of life, but you must always remember that things happen for reasons in our lives. we may not know why, but they do. i know it might not seem it now, but there might just be someone even more deserving of your love. keep the faith sweetie pie, good luck. just remember, we have all been there.
2006-12-02 11:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun just keep in touch with him. if he loves u the way u love him then he will keep in touch with u back. i have had this feeling. my heart was broke 2. just keep ur hopes and dreams up and u can see him not as often but u can see him some.
2006-12-02 11:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the best of the time you have together,take lots of pic and videos..Get involved in lots of activities to keep your mind off him.
2006-12-02 11:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by simply2priceless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes comeing back then just email him and stuff until he comes back if not then just forget about him and look for another fish in the sea there are a ton of guys out in the world that are just like you
2006-12-02 11:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to distract yourself. Define yourself. Any hobbies? There must be something u can do for yourself. Work? Try it.
2006-12-02 11:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by emilystar25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
epoxy resin is good for mending things!!!!!
Sorry but life isn't easy and I think you know the answer to this!
2006-12-02 12:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im and e-mail works webcams and if that dont work there is only on thing to do eat choclate
2006-12-02 11:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by softballengend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋