november 29th was my birthday. when i went to school to see my boyfried, thomas, he didn't seem to notice that it was my birthday. i didn't want to seem conceited or anything by asking if he got me a present or something so i went along with it, but when the day was over he was talking to another girl and telling HER happybirthday. is he cheating on me !!! HELP !!!!!!!
2006-12-02 03:24:34 · 20 answers · asked by bubbles2994 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys do forget these things.
You need to remind him. I'm sure that other girl told him directly that it was her birthday.
Happy Birthday to You!! Now go tell him.
2006-12-02 03:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey kid!!!
As an old guy, I can tell you, its o.k. to draw lines and have standards.
Sometimes people forget but really its is reasonable for you to expect Thomas to remember your birthday.
The proper female thing is to give him the cold shoulder. He won't know what he did wrong, so you probably should tell him that he forgot. If he forgets next year, you should definately dump him. If he does not try and make up for some way after realizing he forgot your birthday, you should dump him right now; give him a week to try and make up for it.
As for the attention he gave to another girl? I don't know. I'm not there to tell if he's friends or flirting. But if he gonna be YOUR boy friend, he better remember YOUR birthday. That's the minimum
2006-12-02 11:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so this guy is your bf and he's talking to another girl and wishing her happy birthday. Either he lost his memory or your history and his not man enough to tell you. But i would have gone and told him why he is talking to that girl instead of you. SOrry but some guy think that if you find another girl the one your with should just know they aen't wanted anymore. But if I was you I would ask him why and how come and if he sides steps the question, it means he has another girlfriend. SOrry and By the Way HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I would get rid of that loser and find a better one and when he sees you with someone else he just might regret what he lost.
2006-12-02 11:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey may not be cheating on you, but you are definately not as high up on his priority list as you should be. You just have to decide if you're okay with a guy who won't remember your birthday, won't treat you special on valentines, etc etc etc. If you are, have fun being miserable, if you aren't, well, say good-bye to this one and look forward to finding the guy who actually is willing to put enough into the relationship to remember your b-day.
2006-12-02 11:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem awfully young to even have a steady bf. but ok, since you already have one *rolling eyes* then take it as a hint. if a guy you're dating knows your b-day but forgets, then remembers another girl's b-day, then don't go out w/ him anymore. granted, you shouldn't get upset either, or cuss him out, or get revenge. just forget about him. don't hang out w/ him, don't talk to his friends, don't even act sad when he finally remembers, if he even bothers to. just disappear for a while. if you have the same classes, then try not to seem mad or upset in front of him. don't tell your friends or his friends, either. don't let it get to him how he made you feel. guys can be forgetful and heartless. they don't do it on purpose, it just happens that way when they don't genuinely like the girl they're "dating." when they do like/love/respect a girl, they do their darndest to show it. so if he likes you, you'll definitely know it. if he knew it was your b-day and didn't even bother mentioning it, forget him altogether and focus on the nice guys who remember. good luck!
2006-12-02 11:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that really sucks,did u even hint to him it was ur b-day?maybe he didn remember,which is kind of a jerk thing to do if ur gf and bf,so id suspect somethin unless he just forgot,go up to him and ask him the next time u see him
2006-12-02 11:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that means that he is cheating on you you need to cheak him befor he hurts you so go ahead and talk to him before he does it agin and then he is going to find out that you aint going to do anything about it and he will do it then the next thing you know you have AIDS and you dont wont that.
2006-12-02 11:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably is.
get a more caring bf.
i'm not saying he isn't caring but if u want me 2, i will
he's a jerk.
ask him what november 29th was.
2006-12-02 11:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap on the face girlfriend...of course theres something going on...beat him up
2006-12-02 11:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by evanesheaven1985 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could be cheating on u or he could have forgotten abt. But if he is cheating on u then kick his *** girl.
2006-12-02 11:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋