In the last 10 years I have gone out with a couple of guys and I always compare them (there size) to my x and then I lose interest after I see they are smaller. I've tried to ignore it but, I don't feel anything for them after we have sex and want to end the relationship. Should I seek counseling? I did date one guy that was a lot bigger and it was great ...unfortunately he was a jerk and I ended up dumping him.
2006-12-02 02:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by airam_k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst thing you can do in the dates world!! Stop comparing the other guys with your ex..!! you can make an awfull mistake if you keepm doing that.. ignore their size and if that doesnt work try talking to your x 'cause is obvious you still have feelings 4 him
2006-12-02 02:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how you feel about it. There isnt anything wrong with you having a preference for well hung men. I feel the same way. If you are really bothered by that feeling though, then maybe you should talk to someone about it. But there isnt anything wrong with you for having a size preference, and I would just say hang in there, and the right well hung guy is out there somewhere
2006-12-02 10:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well, your ex is your ex for a reason. Dont compare, you probably end up ending the relatinship with these men cause your so busy comparing your not focusing on whether they really like you or not. Size is a big factor in a relationship but its deffinately not everything. I wouldnt say you need professional help, but a change is in order.
2006-12-02 11:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size does make a difference for obvious, physical reasons, but I have to say my best lovers have been avg size (around 6 in). To me, it's not all about how deep they can get in me, but the passion, love and their desire to please me that counts most. I've found that the avg size guy is much more willing to go outside the box to make sex exciting and satisfying for his girl. Most men I've encountered that are big have such big egos that they don't feel they have to work as hard to please you. They can be real *****, pun intended :).
I've also noticed that ever since I started masturbating, that it is much easier for me to get the most out of sex b.c I've learned my body. Sex is so much more pyschological than physical. Once you figure that out, it doesn't matter his size, sex will be great with someone you love, even if he is small to you.
2006-12-02 12:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just you having your own sexual perference! I don't feel you need counseling, but a counselor may. lol
I have my likes and dislikes too. I know what pleases me, and I have it in my head I won't settle for less!
I've had bf's that were small, and they didn't turn me on either! What's the sense in going throught the ritual of sex and not enjoying it. Maybe these guys with smaller sizes just haven't learned how to use them???
2006-12-02 10:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you need counselling! You just want some fun right now, until you find your "true love"! You will one day find someone you love and then size won't matter, have your fun for now, but remember; it's personality that matters!
2006-12-02 10:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by .:Tenten:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not going to be happy with him, then it isn't fair to either of you. Its good that you dump them if they don't make you happy. But you may be a little greedy.
2006-12-02 10:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo, an honest woman.
2006-12-02 10:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've got a big one and up for meeting you.
2006-12-02 10:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by CheckTheCoolWax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess... You're a redhead!
2006-12-02 11:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋