one night i hit it off with a nice woman, we made out, i gave her a shoulder / back massage, she let me brush her hair, but I couldnt screw her because I respected her...she said she wanted to get together again, then 2 weeks later told me she found someone..
2006-12-02 02:41:37 · 13 answers · asked by braider27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eh, you got emotionally attached too soon. You seem to have emotional attachments to physical actions so try to wait until a 2nd or third date. If she just left you could after a couple dates, you're better off without her.
2006-12-02 02:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take more time in building a relationship on a mental level than physical.. Anyone can find someone to screw.. that is not the issue here.
Yes, you are nice, and keep being that person... She wasn't right for you obviously, as her interests were quickly diverted to someone else. Would you want to be with someone who is so flippant...You are well rid of her...
Quit beating yourself up an relax.. quit looking for the answer after just meeting someone.. you can't base a love relationship on a chance meeting....You are looking perhaps in the wrong places to meet people. I would get involved in some type of community work where you will meet good people. Ones who are not selfish, are giving and are strong in their hearts and minds.. This is where you will fit in best.... You are this man, this kind, generous and deeply committed individual who wants to love and be loved forever.....You are looking for a strong woman to match up with.... not a spoiled,flippant and immature one who flits from guy to guy...
Check it out...you may be very surprised at the wonderful women out there just waiting for someone like you... I know lots of them....
2006-12-02 02:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont take it personally. She may have met him all along. You are just at the wrong place and the wrong time. But you sound so respectful and amazing that I promise you, there are many women ( me included :) who would kill to be with a guy like you. Just continue being ur wonderful self, it makes you stand out from the typical hormone driven males out there..
2006-12-02 02:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by J*LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys get treated like crap. The problem is that nice guy CARE when they get treated like crap and therefore make a big deal out of it. Regular guys just move on.
Try growing a set.
2006-12-02 02:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by I Am Legend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it...Nice guys are boring. There nothing like a bad boy to demonstrate the alpha male naure which seems to attract the girls. Girls marry nice guys but they always love the bad boys.
2006-12-02 02:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation wasn't about you being too nice. Either she simply wasn't interested in you or there was someone in her life before you and he beat you to the punch during those 2 weeks.
2006-12-02 02:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is rather absurd to signify that basically females try this. i'm a guy and that i've got a chum who's rather severe high quality and all of us rip on him all the time and take care of him like crap. the rationalization being that we are as*holes and refuse to alter.
2016-12-18 06:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by berna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a nice guy, these type of chicks just want to have fun and if you are dumb enough to try and treat them like a princess they will just walk all over you
2006-12-02 02:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by stinkyhotdogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a pussy. You brushed her hair? Spank her *** instead and then go for it (u know what I mean).
2006-12-02 03:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by CheckTheCoolWax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre to nice....be a bit rough......be a man!! u shud hav gone for her after the massage.
2006-12-02 02:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋