The guy I really like always tells me to (call him if I want to)
but then If I test him I barley get any answers what should I think?
2006-12-02 02:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by shaina_wepplo2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Test him? What do you mean by test him? If you like him and he's open to communication it is a good thing. You should take advantage of that, but don't over do it. Call him when you have genuinely interesting things to talk about. Don't call him several times a day, and perhaps don't call him everyday. Just treat this as you would a casual friendship in some respects, how often do you call your friends? This shouldn't be much different. I'd have more to say if I understood what you meant by "test" though, that comment could mean various things. I hope you don't mean you are asking him all sorts of questions trying to determine if he likes you or not, for while this isn't a terrible thing to do, it isn't the best way to get to where you want to be. Being yourself, your happy confident, take me or leave me self, is. Just be sure to show that side of you during your conversations and he'll see what there is about you to like. Drilling him with questions will not. So relax, and don't worry if he likes you or not, just be sure to keep in mind that the more confidence you display in yourself, the more he's going to think that there is damn good reason for that confidence.
2006-12-02 02:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't care if you call or not. You are not his love interest. Sounds as though you are just an acquaintenance s far as he is concerned. In other words, he is not interested in you the way you desire so look for someone else and leave him alone unless you want him as a friend because that is all it will ever be with him.
2006-12-02 02:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try as hard. Space out your phone calls. A lot of guys just are not phone talkers. I wouldn't think much of it, maybe he doesn't know what to think/do either.
2006-12-02 02:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by KS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the looks of things he looks like hes playing with you. Leave a message and give him the run around. If he wants you let him show you. Don't run behind him, let him run behind you!!!! That's whats up!
2006-12-02 02:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because you're never going to get the answers you want, leave this poor guy alone. go find another guy and ruin his life
2006-12-02 02:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sending mix signals, if you like him call him.
2006-12-02 02:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! you've got to keep trying.. I met my soulmate just because I kept trying.. please, don't tell me you're the kind of girl who gives up just like that!!
2006-12-02 02:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he want u to call him
2006-12-02 02:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by jas0friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your cool. He knows you like him. Easy does it.
2006-12-02 02:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by banda-kulu b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't call you he isn't worth it. Give him YOUR number and see what happens.
2006-12-02 02:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by AlaskaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋