Me and a friend work together at work. I really like her but I am not sure if she really like me like I like her. We have knowing eachother for about 2 months. But, I just really like her. I told her how I feel about her. Is it to soon for feelings or what?
2006-12-02 02:38:37 · 15 answers · asked by Dulani J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feelings are never on a timetable, so it's not too soon for you to have feelings for her. However, it may have been too soon for you to tell her how you feel. It's better just to ask her out for coffee or lunch and let the relationship takes its course that way. Hopefully you didn't scare her off, but if she feels the same about you then I think all will be well. Good luck!
2006-12-02 02:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too soon for feelings....but what was her reaction? Was she responsive or did she say she just wanted to be friends? Now that you have this in the open, don't push it. If she feels the same, she will come around. If she avoids you and is stand-offish, then you know she did not feel the same way.
2006-12-02 10:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lidya D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 months you should have some idea about liking a person...from work you won't know a whole lot about them, but there can be enough interest to want to know more.
Just be careful about office relationships...when things go bad, it can cause a lot of stress and awkward times at work.
2006-12-02 10:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i guess u should wait a lil longer and make her feel like u are really nice and be kind to her... and wen the time comes u will know,.. but dont rush into anything but since u already told her there is always the "i was jokin" line or maybe u can try and persuade her how nice u are
2006-12-02 10:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by OutLawZ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feelings don not have a set timetable. Just be patient. You've told her how you feel now wait and see how she responds to you before you take the next step.
2006-12-02 10:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her what she thinks about what you told her...Let her know you just wanna hang out with her sometime. Ask her out to a movie or to dinner or something. Maybe if she interacts with you outside of work, she will see more of what you have to offer.
2006-12-02 10:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by brunettebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should write her a note or a poem plus you should tell her how u feel and if us he does not fell that try to in press her and maybe she'll ask u out
2006-12-02 10:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fabulous Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell us what her reaction was. We can assume that there as not a positive reactoin or you wouldn't be asking us. Backoff now and wait for her to make the next move.
2006-12-02 10:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never too-soon for feelings. Just casually place your hand on her shoulder(occasionally, not all the time) when you talk to her and see what her reaction is.
2006-12-02 10:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out on a date.
2006-12-02 10:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by sweetre2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋