My sisters and I always fight. I am a Christain and I talk to God. But I need help from maybe people who have had expierence? HELP!!
Christains only Please.
2006-12-02 02:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by MIM1996 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sit down and talk to them sometimes and try not to argue. Have conversations with them about things they like and what you like and you enever know you may realize that you have something in common with them which can make you draw closer to them. You can also take them out or do fun things with them - i was once like you until i realized that my siblings are important and if i can get along with my friends then i should be able to get along with my brothers and sister. Pray about it as well..
2006-12-02 02:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to fight with siblings. My sister and I were the same way when we were younger, but once I left home things changed because we didn't see eachother as often and we realized how much we truly appreciated eachother. If you think you may get into an argument with one of them, sometimes it is better to bite your tongue and walk away rather than let an argument escalate. This will give everyone a chance to cool down so they can think more clearly and you will realize it wasn't even worth it to argue in the first place. If there is ever a lack of connection between all of you, try offering to go do something your sisters like to do. If you all do something together, you will have one more thing in common. The best thing to do is to keep your distance if you feel an argument coming on. Just walk away. I know sometimes it's hard not to say something when you're fighting with someone, but if you refrain from saying anything that will make the fights worse you will show your maturity and respect. Lastly, if you end up arguing with them, come back later and just say you're sorry. Sit down with them and have a heart to heart, explain why you got angry and ask them the same - that always helps ease the tension, and if you guys talk it through you will have a better understanding of eachother so that in the future it will be easier on everyone.
2006-12-02 10:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the fights about? Unless you look into them, you cannot claim to be a christian as it does not hold any meaning for you. Being a christian is about understanding one another especially the ones you love. And what better way than to find a way to resolve those fights first and then give thanx to God. There is a passage in the bible that says, if you have a dispute between your brother, in this case, your sister, leave your offering at the altar, settle your dispute then come give praise to the Lord. And how many times did Jesus tells us to forgive our enemies? If you want to worship the Lord, make peace with your neigbour/loved ones first, then you can be at peace with your God and he will be pleased with your offering! God bless!
2006-12-02 10:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned that compassion is the only cure for anger. Having unconditional compassion, with no ulterior motives is the only way you will never be hurt. Study about compassion, have them understand the meaning of unconditional love, and pray that God removes any anger and bitterness from their hearts. If you all come to an understanding in which all you have left for one another is love and peace, and not anger - things will be okay.
I have had many relationships where I have been the angry person - always looking for someone to blame. I have had to learn to take responsibility for only my actions, and love people even when they have hurt me. I have learned that not everyone is out to get me, and that we can only achieve true peace with unconditional love for everyone.
2006-12-02 11:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two younger sisters. We are all grown now, but you can email me if you think I can help. Just know this for sure. You will be young a very short time. Your sisters could be your best friends someday, mine are.
2006-12-02 10:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are fighting with u just ask them why that should help
2006-12-02 10:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
young people ask book
2006-12-02 10:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have any idea
2006-12-02 10:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by luis u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋