hi i'm really in a fix here.i had a great realtionship going with my guy 2 mnths ago .He proposed while we were freinds at work.We do'nt share a physical relationship but we do have our bits of intimacy .he's the silent type of guy but when with me he's real loving &caring .A month ago he changed jobs. though we are at the same place diff job areas ,we barely can meet.I took a hol for week for a function abroad &he was'nt in touch i got so insecure over the issue that i was rude when he did end up calling & when we met up finally we had a fight.The fight grew bigger & now 2 mnths down,the issue is serious with him saying he ca'nt commit to me now , that i was so impulsive to ask for a split at the time.i apologised met up , we barely managed to patch now he just wants freindship to avoid geting hurt i managed to convince him we'd work things out. Now hes totally changed &is very distant i do'nt know him anymore .i'm trying my best to give it time & effort.how do i get his love back
2006-12-02 02:33:41 · 5 answers · asked by icequeen3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sumtimes things dont work out in a way u want them 2 me coz they are not meant 2 be
move forward and sum1 wid whom its naturally good in which u dont need effortssssssssssss
2006-12-02 02:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound as if you need to take time to heal. But it may be that this has put a "bad taste" in his mouth. It might be over for you, if you were a real drama queen. Look at it as a learning lesson, don't overreact!
Good luck.
2006-12-02 10:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lidya D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if you really want the "love" back or if you are just lonely??
If I were you I would try to be friends with him...but I would also be on the prowl for someone to replace him!!!
2006-12-02 10:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to hurt your feelings but it is appears to be over.
Don't beat a dead horse. Move on...
Good luck!
2006-12-02 10:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, talk to him
2006-12-02 10:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋