I have this guy friend of mine and we always hang out and talk about how we feel about eachother and everything. We've dated and everything else... and I figured everything was fine. I mean in public he would refer to me as hid girlfriend and he hold and hug me and everything else.... then i find out that he slept with some girl. And it not that I'm mad, but why do guys do that? Why would you tell a girl your datin, hold her, hug her and evrything else and then go sleep with someone else. And Its not the matter of sex, I'm just trying to understand why would he go through all that trouble of telling me his feelings, buyin me stuff, and making it look like we're dating and then just go sleep with some girl? Guys please explain! And girls any advice?
2006-12-02 02:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by Ash420Granito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been through the same thing. Now, its not all guys, but some guys are just plain stupid. They may even actually have real feelings for you, but in the moment they can only think with their package. I'll never understand that for certain, but it has definitely happened to me before. My best advice for you hun, is to get rid of this one and just take your time, have fun being single and scoping out the scene... then, you just have to take it slow. Good luck hon!
2006-12-02 02:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him with the question. Also I would tell him that you want a relationship that you can trust the guy. I would move on because he is still playing the field and you only caught him once, who knows who else he has been sleeping with. Apparently he isn't ready to settle down to one person and doesn't love you as much as he says.
2006-12-02 02:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by iceblue_purple 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a player...boy do I hate when guys ruin it for other men...some men find it easy to have a steady gf , while they roam..or sleep a girl they probally dont care about, its a commitment issue...dont buy into the buying stuff, or the how i feel stuff, actions speak clearly,
2006-12-02 02:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by braider27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad.
This is how guys are wired.
You have to tell him how you feel about this. In fact, just ask him in the same manner that you asked all of us here.
He'll give you the answer but it may not be one that you want to hear...
2006-12-02 02:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ´cause he really cares about you and he don't sees you like a sex buddy... he's interested in you, thats clear... but that doesn't excuses himself for what he've done.... if you aren't boyfriend and girl firend already don't waste your time it just would happen the same... if not just try talking to him... its you decition
2006-12-02 02:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you, but he is not completely satisfied or you're not satisfying him, so when that happens we guys tend to sleep with other girls to bridge the gap and satisfy the sexual needs.
2006-12-02 02:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jocker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the other girl was just for sex... it doesnt change how he feels about you
things will work out better if you accept it but dont let him do it again
2006-12-02 02:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While your still just dating, it's okay for both of you to have sex with other people.
2006-12-02 02:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably there is some kind of comfort that he couldn't get from you so he went looking for it from some other girl.
2006-12-02 02:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cos guys r fools wen it comes to pussys they foget about eveything else .....
2006-12-02 02:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by apple 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋