Oh my god. I feel so terrible right now. So last night, i went out to get over the X. we were together forever, and i messed things up, and we were apart for two years. Well, i wanted her back, but she is dating another guy. ok so we slept togehter last week, and i know she loves me, and i love her to death. but me and the boys went out for a "get over it night" ... I was not all about it, then when i got home, i got on my laptop and sent her boyfriend a message on myspace that i had had sex with her.... I know..WTF!! What type of jealous X boyfrind does that...I do not even know where to begin to make things right.....i really messed up bad
2006-12-02 02:23:19 · 21 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-02 02:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by icy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let me ask you....do you know how she really feels about you? If she has another boyfriend, then I don't quite understand why she would come back to sleep with you if she's supposedly moving on. If you know she doesn't want to date you anymore, then there's really nothing you can do about it. Take it from me...you can't really change a person's feelings no matter how hard you try because it's their own personal freedom and decision, and if you try to make a person come back to you and love you then she doesn't really love you...it was all for a bribe.
I know revenge and trying to send messages that she still likes you is probably whats on your mind right now...and I know for guys that it's hard to just sit back and let things happen cause you like having control and being able to do something about how you feel....but really the best thing I can say is to let her know that you still love her and will be there if anything happens, and just be a good friend to her. It's hard to gain trust back, but if you really love her then you'll let her life her life the way she wants and you'll be there for her as a friend as she needs it.
2006-12-02 02:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by turtle gurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
K wow ... My bf does the identical factor..When he will get mad and starts acting like a jerk, he says its my fault for making him act that method.. I dont even wanna get into how false the announcement is ..However subsequent time hes being imply - - dont LET him..Just stroll away..Mmaybe you might have informed him u spent sixty seven greenbacks on some thing which used to be a shock... I thikn u made a mistake of apologizxing to him..When u say sorry it indicates him that ur taking full resposibility...And hence it can human nature for him to exploit it out for what its worth..Dont worry about it ..And just supply it a couple of days and dont be additional excellent or further mean .,and DONT take the imply things he says critically ..And im sure he'll come around the higher drawback seems like you guys have disorders in mattress...You ought to talk about that did he say he used to be mad you spent money or mad that u didnt inform him as that messes up his balancing ...If hes mad that u spent money on lingerie then you have a proper to be a lil insulted, but when hes mad cuz u didnt inform him..Good, i dont blame him you might have tol him u spent moeny but u wont inform him on what cuz its a surprise
2016-08-10 00:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't have done that..you're either too obsessed with the girl or you're just plain not thinking straight right now..get yourself straight..you have hurt most the girl you are so obsessed about because you have ruined her reputation to her new boyfriend..if you really love her,you would be protecting her image..to get her back,you should be a hero to her not a pain in the neck..try to apologize first to the girl then to the guy for the mess you did..just like what was said,no matter how long you have walked the wrong path,you go back and make the right one..good luck..
2006-12-02 02:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by rinoa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a minute.. so you've been apart 2 years and your're just now getting over it? Who slept together you and her or you and her new boyfriend? Well she doesn't love you that much, or she'd be with you. She's just starting to get less infatuated with the new guy. Yea I think they'll be okay but since you did that, she'll never trust you again and I think you've just blown it for yourself for getting stuff on the side. To make things right just disappear.
2006-12-02 02:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. so i would say if you want to undo all of this you will have to contact the bf again and say you sent the message in a drunken stupor and you said something that was not true out of jealousy. of course he will be leary but you need to try to convince him that you made a lame move b/c you drunk. then you should call your ex and tell her what you did. she will be livid - be prepared! but you can come clean and tell her that you told the bf it was all a mistake. hopefully everyone will move forward. if not, maybe they break up and you finally get what you want.
2006-12-02 02:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by cami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax body..devil minds r on ur side now...there r many tricks u can do to get away: tell her and her bf that some friend who was drunk was sitting with me and saw my space on my pc opened and tried to joke with me so he sent that message which is really a big lie,second:u can stand to him if u really love her to death and as u said she loves u and end things clearly infront of him(tell him u love her more than him and i can prove it even if u fought him..be a man in this part)..third:u can simply tell him that u was drunk and wasnot responsible on ur acts and none of what u sent is real..fourth:u can tell him i was drunk and meant to tease u by telling u i made sex with her but when i was her bf (2 years ago)..body:if u really like her and she likes u then i advice u with no. 2...the best in my mind..GOOD LUCK and dont drink again
2006-12-02 02:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by castello 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah I am a gril and I know that we dont like that type of stuff but you got to tell her how you feel or she will never know about it but try not to comeon to strong and then take her out for brunch or somethhing and you cant love some just because they are good in bed but for the other things to like the way she smiles or the way she moves her head to the side when she is sad rember that and it will take you far in life.........
2006-12-02 02:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all if he has not read it yet you can delete your profile and the mail will not be able to be read. Secondly I don't think you get over it night worked because it sounds like you are still jealous.
2006-12-02 02:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, to be honest, there really isnt anything you can do, other than to tell her what you did, apologize and then leave it alone! You made a big mistake, but so did she, so now she needs to deal with it with her current boyfriend. Apologize, but then back off, there isnt really anything you can do here anymore.
2006-12-02 02:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly in my opinion, there's not much you can do to fix that. Talk to her to see if she mad or what not, apologize. I don't know about the new boyfriend. Let it burn. Don't do anything else, b/c you might make it even worse. Just let everything run its course.
2006-12-02 02:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by butaflie06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋