My childhood pal just recently asked me if we could get married. We would only make things official next year at the end of the year (bascially a year from now) & today we were gonna meet. He phoned me while i was at the Jenna Clifford looking at rings i told where i was. He said that he was gonna be a bit lat as his fanbelt in his car broke (female-i aint understand cars) he just said now that they found out where the leak was & that there is no other girl that i am competing with & i stole his heart & that he stopped chatting to all his female pals (female pals happened about a week or two ago) after i had told him i was at Jenna Cliffod & had liked a ring he said that i should sms him the details& we will go by tomorrow together to see the ring. Is he for real or must a move on? Im getting mixed emotions. HELP!!!
2006-12-02 02:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if you are getting mixed emotions , something isnt right..be careful
2006-12-02 02:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by braider27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him enough to marry him? Then you should trust him enough that you will meet him at the jewelry store tomorrow. Of course, it sounds like you are not clear that you do trust him, what with the line about "no other girl" that you felt necessary to mention.
I would say go meet him, but be cautious about moving from engaged to setting the date until you feel sure you and he have the kind of trusting relationship that could work in a marriage. Refusing the ring would probably mean you would be ending the relationship. Guys don't like to be put off unless you have a good reason. They accept yes, they accept no, but "maybe" comes hard. And maybe sounds too much like "no."
2006-12-02 10:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're freaking out b/c he wasn't able to meet you b/c his car broke down? I don't think I'm understanding the whole post. lol
I'll just say, if you think you are getting mixed emotions, then chances are he's not ready to get married or you're looking for a reason yourself and you're not ready to marry this guy yet. Either way, just take your time, build a secure, strong relationship before you get married. There is no rush, and should be no pressure, so just talk to him and say you think you guys need more time to build the relationship before you make a huge commitment such as marriage.
2006-12-02 11:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by *~Mom2aJellybean~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation but If you feel confused in any way then ask him for a little bit of time first. You don't want to get yourself into something that you are not sure of.
Just ask him to give you a little bit of time. Sleep on it for a little bit. Don't be afraid to talk to him.
Best Wishes &
Good Luck.
2006-12-02 10:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have mixed feelings you should wait to get married. Continue with the relationship until you know one way or another!
2006-12-05 15:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. sounds like everrything is fine to me, unless there is more to the situation.
2006-12-02 10:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should what if you guys get into a argument then you both wont be friends anymore.
2006-12-02 12:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by brownslilbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋