I want to hint to one of my close friends that I'm attracted to him, but girl-version subtle is practically invisible by male standards.
What's subtle enough to not have me risking the friendship, and obvious enough that he'll get the damn hint???
Thanx
2006-12-02 02:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Callisto 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smack him in the face with a frying pan and shout I LIKE YOU!
2006-12-02 02:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for coffee or drinks and ask him while you are sitting there what he thinks about friends becoming lovers? If you like his answer ask him if he thinks that could ever happen to the two of you? If that's too subtle for him the answer he gives should give you another opening. Better go for coffee. You don't want the alcohol to affect his emotions.
2006-12-02 10:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see your friend keep staring at him until he notices you and make sure you smile at him. Just keep smiling and don't take your eyes off him. If he doesn't start walking toward you then after a while you start slowly walking toward him and keep smiling never taking your eyes off him. Once you get up to him just say, "Hi" with a big smile on your face. Believe me he'll say something to you....trust me.
2006-12-02 10:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys cannot take a hint if applied with a sledge hammer. if he isn't taking the hint you have given, maybe he doesn't think of you in that way, maybe he is afraid, like you, of ruining a friendship
2006-12-02 10:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by mongo862001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be very flirty. Be touchy feely and very attentive. If worse comes to worse tell a friend to tell him but act like she's revealing a secret to him.
2006-12-02 10:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go for a walk, and gradually lead him to the point, say "What would you think if we became more than friends?" You will know if he likes you likes you.
-James
2006-12-02 10:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him quite a bit, get touchy feely with him and telling him doesnt hurt sometimes lol
2006-12-02 10:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't respond well to hints. Just tell him.
2006-12-02 10:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you dont ask him. Ask khim out andn if he says no then just keep on being friends...best of luck!
2006-12-02 10:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who have no idea will click to little hand holding, but more than friendly..... stroke the hand etc.....
and look at him real sexy, if he dont get it hes a lost cause far out.
2006-12-02 10:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Frooshanti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋