Me and this guy known each other for alittle over a year, and we have been sexually involved for maybe eight months now. He spoke hypothetically, but he was asking what would I do if he asked me for a relationship. He just got out of a six year relationship and I just got out of a two year relationship, we definitely don't want to rush things. I'm the only girl he spends time with. Does that mean he wants to commit to me??
2006-12-02 02:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by butaflie06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think you are already in a relationship the only thing that hasnt happen is saying.why dont you ask him would he be hurt if you seen someone else and im sure he will say yes just as well as you so just be up front with him and say hey aint we already in a relationship.and if he says no then ask him what would you call it i mean he cant think your going to be okay with just bed buddies or maybe you are and if thats the case then you should really tell him how you feel cause he might want tobe with you and make a family anyhow i wish you luck but one thing you shouldnt have slept with him unless you really wanted to be in a relationship but i do know how things are so good luck
2006-12-02 02:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've put your feelings out there with him. I wouldn't recommend having just a sexual relationship with someone and nothing else. Now he wants a relationship maybe!!! That's not cool.Maybe I misunderstood you but if I didn't I wouldn't be in a situation like that. Its destructive because you might don't even know that you are emotionally involved and with this guy and he is just getting your body. Well to answer your question if he wants a relationship now go for it I mean what else is there for you to do!
2006-12-02 02:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not 100% sure but i'd say he does. If your the onley girl then he probley does and you should come up to your senses and try a relationship.
2006-12-02 02:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Sounds like it to me. After 8 months, I would expect it to turn into a more serious relationship.~
2006-12-02 02:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you should have sex with a guy you not even committed with at all. since you are the only girl he spends time with he probly does want to be with you. so go with it if you like him.
2006-12-02 02:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by DiP13sK01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sounds like he is testing the waters, to see what your response would be he would not want to be let down. sounds like he already is with you anyay.
2006-12-02 02:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋