He died at the bowling alley with a heart attack and he had alzehiemers to he fell over with it...just how do i let him go?
2006-12-02 01:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by Krystal L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just let him go. He should be gone. All of us will die, it's human nature. Just pray to God and hope he will wealthy in other life. Even though he's gone but his heart and kindness will always live with you ever. You will not feel lonely and miss him if you've realized that.
2006-12-02 02:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by eddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Well there is no way to get over it. I know because I lost my dog almost 3 months ago and it still feels like it was a week ago.
You can never get over a friend or family member passing. It's very tragic and the pain is so hurtful.
The only thing that can happen is the pain will go away. But you can never get over ones death nor forget them...
I wish the best for you and your family.
2006-12-02 04:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My Gma died not long ago. It is almost impossible to take advice when you have lost someone close to you. But I feel that they never leave you. I know it's hard when you miss them so much. Just remember that he is with you always so you don't have to let him go. He will always be there with you. Rember the good times you had, because that is what life is. A seriese of good and bad times. I'm sure your g-pa wouldn't be happy to know you can't move on. He would surly want you to be happy. It's hard i know! Try to keep smiling sweet heart! I hope you feel that you are not alone. Lots of us feel the same way!
2006-12-02 02:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by chickenpooski 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey krystal i am very sorry for your loss, it sounds like you really cared for him.i have just spent my first thanksgiving without my father, what a big change that was it had always been his favorite holiday and he made it so much fun for the family.
what i do krystal is remember the good times i had with him, speak with family members about the funny things he would do and say and even though that hurts because i wont ever have that first hand experience again
i have my memories and they cant be taken away.
i then i honor him by knowing what he stood for in life, i apply those things to my own life taking in consideration what he would do or say or the way he would act in any situation. knowing that my father was a good man as i am sure that your grandpa was too he makes me a better person which in itself honors him.
and then krystal, i even being close to 40 realize i have to grow up and face facts about life that i sometimes dont want to face.then responsibilty kicks in and caring for the other family members that hurt because of our loss seems to be more important to me,because it is even worse when i see my family hurt. so i do my best to care for them as my father would and when i dont feel so strong i go and be with the i am close to and let my feelings out and get my strenght back so i may help someone else who is not feeling so strong again.
i hope this will help you krystal.....good luck
2006-12-02 02:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by sapachedog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't Krystal. You never will. The man will always be with you to the day and beyond you yourself give up the ghost. This is called love. The pain and the loss will erode with time but you will never forget. You will never lose the love and having acknowledged that you will find that you never quite get over it. You never let go of your memories and you will never stop your heart from loving him. His body is dead, yours isn't; as long as your love lives he too will live with you.
You will be an old woman one day, and you will have grandchildren yourself. Before old age takes your spirit home you will still have your memories of him and you will still love him. You won't get over it entirely darlin, you won't let him go even old age. When God calls you home your grandchildren will never get over it and they too will not let you go.
2006-12-02 02:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My g-ma passed away 11 years ago... in Japan. I was so close to her and when i found out that she passed away, i took it hard. One thing that I have learned to deal with it is that she will never be forgotten, and the minute i accept that she passed away, the easier it is to deal with the pain. Also, use the wisdoms that your grandfather gave you to better yourself and help others. And remember the love he gave ya! But you'll never forget him because he left a footprint in your heart :)
2006-12-02 03:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Roger S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would get my mind off of it by hanging with friends or doind your favorite sport.A BF is also a great person to talk over your feelings with.Try not to bottle it up because at one time or another you will explode and it might be to someone you dont want it to be to.and im sorry about your gp.good luck.
2006-12-02 02:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by LilMissH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear of his passing. I don't think you ever 'just let him go'. Cherish every moment you had with him and honor his memory often. What you have to do is get used to being without him. Remember him everyday for the rest of your life, don't let his memory die too.
2006-12-02 02:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lidya D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg my g-pa just passed away yesterday to. Has it hit you yet like you cried? Why do u want to let go you always want 2 remember him
2006-12-02 01:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by fieldhockeygul20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a bottle of Jack Daniels, some ice and a big glass. Condolences.
2006-12-02 01:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋