My boyfriend just added an ex to his myspace, and I told him to get to work on one of my comments, she told him the same thing on her comment with a smiley face. So they must be sending messages for her to say that on a different day at a different time. He doesn't let me have guy friends and he would kill me if I ever talked to any of my exs.
Just so you know we are in our 20s and have been dating six years.
2006-12-02 01:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by hot like me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~Yes, I would definitely be mad and not afraid to show it! It's not jealousy, it's just wrong. You need to let him know he's putting your relationship through a test of trust and your relationship might lose.~
2006-12-02 01:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be mad because it is a double standard. If he continues to have an ex on myspace then don't argue about it anymore but have your guy firends and have your guy friends on myspace too. It is NOT ok for him to do something that you can't. Don't argue about it, just do it. Let me know how you feel and if he says its no big deal that they're just friends then fine. you have your guy friends and say the say thing. Don't let him walk over you and stress. Do you want him to behave this same way if you were married?
2006-12-02 09:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Myspace ruins relationships.
I'm telling you this because I know.
you can meet anyone you want, talk to anyone you want and it can be completely secret.
My boyfriend hardly ever leaves me comments, we live together and are constantly talking so I don't mind.
if it really bothers you, say "look, I'm not allowed to talk to my ex's because you would freak out, so don't talk to yours because it's disrespectful to me"
but if I were you, I'd look into what they're saying....maybe try to get into his myspace to see if they've been sending emails aswell...and check his cell for any numbers that you're not sure about...because like I said, myspace is trouble. it has brought the most drama into my life in the year and a half that I've had it...
2006-12-02 09:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. But, he shouldn't be able to tell you that you can't have any guy friends. He's not your master. He's your boyfriend. Add a couple of guy friends to your MySpace and see how he reacts. If he starts acting jealous, tell him that you thought it would be okay since he added his ex. If he is still mad say, "I'll make a deal with you. I'll get rid of the guys if you get rid of your ex."
2006-12-02 09:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a myspace and do one of the lists they allow on there of all your ex's with stars beside them (for the ones you like most, down to the least). Then get your boyfriend to check it out. Say you'll delete them if he puts her on his ignore list. Other than that, keep your ex's alive and well on your myspace. It's what I would do.
2006-12-02 09:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not your boss or your daddy. He can't "not let" you do whatever you choose to do. Be an adult, decide for yourself who your friends are going to be (not out of spite, but because you are living your own life) and then do it.
It's okay that he's friends with an ex...he has every right to be...if you're going to be mad at anyone, be mad at yourself for allowing him to tell you what you can and cannot do (and you abiding by it).
Get a spine and do what you want...be respectful to your partner but don't bow down to them...if he doesn't like your friends, he doesn't have to be friends with them...
Perhaps he's not a good partner for you, if he's going to have a double standard for how you two each can behave. Talk to him about this and let him know you can make your own decisions and having male friends doesn't mean you're going to cheat or that you care about him less...in fact, you'll care about him more for trusting and respecting you.
2006-12-02 09:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he does not let you have guy friend & will kill you if you talk to any of your Xs
PLEASE try to make since I presume that you are not stupid and can stand on your own two feet
a controlling boyfriend is the future abusive husband
Goodluck
2006-12-02 09:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally you should be frustrated... but ask him. Explain the problem to him.
Tell him that you dont want to get back together with them, but you just want to keep in contact with friends. If he dosent like it, than tough...
1. he can but you cant.. is ridiculous...
2. they're your friends, dont stop communication because of your over-protective bf.
2006-12-02 09:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by John B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have every right to be mad. He sounds like a jerk and controlling.
2006-12-02 09:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by jackrabbit 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a jerk for adding an ex
2006-12-02 09:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ituneu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋