The problem is that I'm in highschool and I don't really know anything about love. Last year I really liked a boy but he always said that he didn't like me, I understood so I decided to forget about him but the thing was that he was always trying to get my attention. During that year I met this boy that became my bestfriend and the year ended and during summer I didn't speak to both of them, since I was traveling. I got back to school and since I'm about to be a senior, school is getting kind of hard. I got reunited with my bestfriend and well long story short, he's now my boyfriend. The thing is that I feel that he's the best thing that has ever happened to me, but the guy that I liked first likes me now and I kind of like him still but I don't think he's right for me. What can I do? Do I leave my boyfriend and stay single for a while, Do I stay with my boyfriend or do I pay attention to the other guy?Is it right to stay with my boyfriend since I'm happy with him.
2006-12-02 01:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-02 01:46:25 · update #1
well baby i think u should stay with ur boyfriend because he did not want u when u wanted him, now i call this a payback time. ur best friend was there for u when u needed a friend. he 's been there for u since then, he makes u happy and even loves u. if i were u i wouldn't even care about that selfish cow. stay with ur bf.
2006-12-02 01:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy in your current situation, stay with him. If not, then don't.
I have noticed that while in a relationship, the people that I used to be interested in are now interested in me. I think it has something to do with the fact that I am no longer available and the guy wants what he can't have. That happens a lot with a lot of people. Don't become single just for this other guy because more than likely, he won't be interested anymore when you become single.
2006-12-02 01:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you are in a relationship that works then stick to it. Don't leave your boyfriend for this other guy. It could be the worst mistake you will make. If the first guy didn't do anything when he had the chance then that's his loss. i't's okay to still like the other guy and be attracted to him, but just don't do anything. Everyone finds others attractive when they are in a relationship. It's totally healthy. Maybe the first guy finds you attractive because you're unaccessable right now. Some guys find girls in relationships to be attractive. don't do it. If you become available and he decides he doesn't like you anymore then what.
2006-12-02 01:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend,stay with him.If you do not love him,do whatever you want to do.But in Love's matters,never is a good idea to play with the feelings of others.(in this case your boyfriend).Some relationships are only for to have sex.Some couples (man and a woman),are together for to have sex,but they do not love each other.Think good what you will do.Good luck.Some couples are together,because they love each other.
2006-12-02 01:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds to me that guy 1 only wants you because you are with guy 2. I've seen this many times. Guy 1 just wants to prove that he can have you for his own ego. If you like the guy your with, stay put.
2006-12-02 01:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by dalenlucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK AT IT THIS WAY- IFYOUR WERE TRUELY HAPPY WITH YOUR BF YOU WOULD NOT STILL HAVE SOME SORT OF FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE ELSE
2006-12-02 01:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by GIRLYPENGUIN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang back! you are the one in demand here. see who comes to you!
good luck!
2006-12-02 01:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In nine months, you will be in College. Who will you be seeing then? And Why? And How?
Please that this seriously.
2006-12-02 01:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋