I am always getting rejected, the main reason i've found out is of the way i look.Do looks really matter?
2006-12-02 01:20:34 · 24 answers · asked by blue_fear_2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls are more accepting of guys looking average than men are of average looking girls.
You seem to have a "kick me" attitude which is more likely what is turning off the girls than your looks.
2006-12-02 01:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks matter. Think, would you want to date you? If there is something you could change for the better in terms of looks, try to. Not only will you feel better about yourself but you'll be more attractive. Get a teeth whitening kit from the store, don't by ineffective hair products, shave, lose weighth/gain weight - just try to eat more healthy...these are things you can do without plastic surgey that can help you. Buy close that fit you nice and show that you actually care about your appearance. Looks matter more to some than others, but they matter and they help. Even in the job world, the less ugly person gets better treatment. Its not always right, but its the way it is. Good luck :)
2006-12-02 09:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, I have lots of lovely girlfriends, some long distance friends from school, some from college, some from work. However, it may be that as I am a girl it works differently. When I was young and single however I used to go dancing a lot (when you didn't have to dance round your handbag) and danced regularly with one of the ugliest men in the room, a regular at this particular venue, but could he dance. It was a joy. Nobody cared that he didn't look like a Greek God and all the girls lined up to dance with him. The moral of this story is: get yourself a hobby at which you excel and which girls admire. eg: sailing, rugby, tennis, playing classical guitar, proper dancing. Once known you can take your pick from the queue of girls wanting to meet you. Bon chance young man.
2006-12-02 09:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen really pretty girls with such ugly guys that I get a shock way fall for them, Im sure its not your looks maybe your personality is far better to them smile at a girl im sure it would work your a bloke
I would always myself however go with a beautiful looking boy even if I can't find I want go with a man who I just don't like forever it my take but Im sure my day will come so will yours so good luck
2006-12-02 10:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some bloke said the same thing to me the other week, women kept rejecting him and he thought it was because he was ugly, he was not ugly at all. I did not fancy him not because of his looks but because he seemed a bit boring. If he was an interesting person and we got on great looks would not matter. he,s a nice enough bloke. he meeting someone today anyway.
2006-12-02 09:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup Im the same. Not the best looking bloke in the world. Its prob more to do with confidence. Although looks are the first thing people see when they see you. Therell be someone out there for you
2006-12-02 12:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones who are rejecting you are shallow if you looks are all they go on so they aren't the kinda girl you should be with in the first place.
If a girl trully likes you she will go for your personality...how long do looks last anyway when you don't have the money for plastic surgery?
2006-12-02 10:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that unfortunatly a lot of people are shallow now a days. It shouldnt matter but some people think otherwise. Keep looking mijo, cause someone who loves you no matter what is better than someone who is with you because of how you look, you deserve better
2006-12-02 09:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god! who said that? they are not worth it! the thing is beauty catches the eye, but a great personality catches the heart.......so dont look for it, be yourself and people will ove that about you no matter what! if this really has not made you feel better though then try working on yourself, train at the gym, use a good cleanser, change your hair? i dont know! but dont waste your time with people who cant see whats on the inside! x
2006-12-02 11:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I would say we aren't as particular about how a guy looks than guys usually are. If the guy happens to be most charming and intelligent, looks are overlooked(though if he's cute, that's a bonus). So try to examine your behavioural around girls.
2006-12-02 09:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by G K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No look doesn't matter it should be how you are in the inside. Like if your nice and stuff, To tell you teh truth i don't look very pretty myself i think ut some guys think i am pretty but i am nice and sweet to them and make them fall harder for me. So it's whats in the inside not outside
2006-12-02 09:24:06 · answer #11 · answered by fieldhockeygul20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋