I need to know what I should do?
My boyfriend send me e-mails very late...and he expected me to send him mails first..and I m bored of that I could scream!
I m feeling like disgrace as a young girl..Why must I always write a love letter and receive very short answers to my mails!!
i hate this idea///
My boyfriend told me that I should grow up and be calm and very sweet to him but how can any girl stay silent when she has to be the first to express love and never receives the equal attention.
I don t know what to do..I dont know even if I m expecting too much romance or what ..my question is that can any wise one tell me out of this wirld world if it is my right not to send him mails for a while until he is sending me a message!
and when I want to leave him, he hold me and begg me..
I dont know what to do..help me.? please?i love him , he is kind and a student but too boring!!
2006-12-02 01:18:14 · 7 answers · asked by princessFiona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, toodles, you are HALF of this so-called relationship. If you aren't getting what you need, break up with him. He is a control freak anyway, you will never please him, he's a cold fish. Been there, done that. They don't warm up, you will be permanently frustrated and it will only become more dissatisfying for you.
2006-12-02 01:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Princess if you don't want to write don't write. And no you aren't asking too much from romance. It's your life Baby. Do what YOU want. He has no control over your decisions unless you're giving him the control.
You're bored, unhappy and want some romance in return for the romantic love you give and he's not giving. Why are you with him?
Time to move on. Good Luck
2006-12-02 09:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should let him send you e-mails first beacuse if he makes you do it all the time then he might not know how he feels about you. Don't fall for the begging stuff. Or you should make plains of what you like to do one night and see how it goes and see if he is boring then
2006-12-02 09:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by fieldhockeygul20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write just as much to him as he does to you, and if he doesn't write back it's his problem, you need to talk to him about what your feeling and if things don't turn out you can definitly do better! there are more fish in the sea, and most are willing to give more to the relationship. You shouldn't be doing all the work here, you get what you give, or at least you should, in this case your doing all the giving and he's doing all the taking....
2006-12-02 09:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by dadsprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a bit scary. Is he controlling? If so, get the heck out of Dodge. At the very least, he sounds a bit too needy. He shouldn't force you to give him love.
2006-12-02 09:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very controlling. he's the one who needs to grow up. i would wait until he sends you one or better yet you need to move on it doesn't sound like a good relationship to be in plus it sounds like you need to get out and meet other people and enjoy life.
2006-12-02 09:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send this question to him let him know how you really feel about him.
2006-12-02 09:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋