What is it that creates attraction?
And what destroys it?
2006-12-02 01:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
attraction is very hard to define, it varies form person to person. For me is more about personality than looks, I want (and have) a guy who treats me right, is kind and caring but also respects me.
For me the thing that destroys relationships fast than anything is lack of trust
2006-12-02 01:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the 'firtile' factor. we look to see in the other person, how feminine or masculine they are, and what kind of children they will produce.
the healthier and more firtile someone looks, the more attractive they are.
obviosly this is only physical attraction, and to some extend rather too functual. the real fun and the real attraction comes from when you get to know someone; the ability to share a laugh, and idea or a thought with ease is where the real deep attraction lays.
mrben
2006-12-02 01:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by mrben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An interesting question because it is so complex in nature. It could be a million different things with a million different couples. I fell in love because the man had awesome pheromones, that simple.
What destroys attraction? your guess is as good as mine.
2006-12-02 01:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this very much depends on the person who feels the attraction, and what attracts them. me personally it has always been personality, with most girls i think you will find a sunny personality and being able to make her laugh is good. lets face it looks are skin deep, give me a nice guy any day who is average looking , over a hunk with zero personality!!!.
2006-12-02 07:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by HELEN W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its down to smiles and honesty, with laughter as well,
and what destroys it is negativity in any way shape or form.
2006-12-02 01:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual vibes
what destroys it? a guy who is rubbish in bed
2006-12-02 01:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Magnets.
Usually a sledge hammer will do the trick.
2006-12-02 01:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sherlock 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sex appeal!
2006-12-02 01:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋