Girlfriend Dilemma?

Question

I have been seeing this girl for over a year now, and she is great the best thing is when she needs to be a lady she will be, and the rest of the time she is one of the guys, she like doing stuff I do!

Here’s my problem, she is obsessed with big dicks… she will mention penis size all most every other day! We both want to take our relationship to the next step, but I keep putting it off. Just because I am tall she thinks that I have a big penis, I am afraid she will laugh when she see mine and if that happens I don’t think I will be able to trust another women again, I know people say size don’t matter its how you use it and stuff, but if you hear your girl go on about big penis it gets you thinking I would say mines just below average but she goes on about 9inch to 14inch.

What shall I do? Shall I leave her or just avoid having sex with her??? Has anyone else been in this situation or similar please let me know how to over come it, as its driving me CRAZY!!!!!!

Answer 1

She probably doesn't even realise she's doing it! Unless you are absolutely tiny, it really doesn't make much difference - most women aren't easily pleased with just penetration anyway. A year's a long time to go out with someone without having sex - maybe she thinks talking about penises will speed things up a little? If you have sex with her, just go all out to please her - she's not going to be whipping out a tape measure. Anyway, if she's as shallow as to laugh at you (bet she wouldn't) then you'd be well rid of her anyway. Sex is only a part of a relationship - if she's stuck around for a year already without sex, obviously she feels a lot for you. Don't panic. It'll be fine.

Answer 2

She's full of it. The world record size penis is 13 inches. Almost no one is over 8". 6" is about average. You should tell her those facts, and tell her that everything she is saying is BS (with milder language, at first). If she has anything else to say to that, or if she insists that such large members are common, leave her. She does not sound very mature or realistic, and you deserve better than her. I would say that she probably has a HUGE vagina, or she's trying to break up with you secretly, or she just wants you to feel bad. So unless you want to use your fist or be insulted like that, you should probably leave her. Good luck!

Answer 3

It's a matter of mind power, if you think it's big and show you are proud of it she'll enjoy it more. If you worry it's too small you'll just end up being needy in bed and trying too hard. Man show her what you can do with it and knock that stigma on it's head. Bigger is not better, Only an inexperienced shallow little woman could think that it is, so educate her. Be strong you are not alone, Though have to say mine is massive! If she laughs at you, which she won't, tell her her *****'s too tight, Or her breasts are hard or somethin'.

Answer 4

Hi
Try not to worry so...If you both really want to 'take the next step' then she has to be mature enough to know that size really is not all that important, (OK, it may look good) but as you say its what you do that matters....why not go for it! ? You can start by stripping her slowly and kissing her all over (especially her breasts....) then move down and down....you know where I mean...once you have got her almost crying out for you...THEN you get you c**k out, (remember the condoms!!) and have yourself some great sex... Good luck and may you have lots of great sex!!

Answer 5

It sounds to me like she is somehow trying to give you confidence. Maybe in her mind, if she talks about alot, you'll start to believe thats how she feels about you. Its just a stab in the dark (no pun intended!) though, so its best to talk to her about it. If she's been with you for this long, and waited, chances are shes already in love with you, and therefore it'll be a case of making love rather than sex. Also it sounds like she's into porn-this often leads people to live in a constant sexual fantasy. As i say, talk to her.

Answer 6

well well well what we have here is failure to communicate first thing first talk to her if she is the one she will understand also most men think there willy is smaller than it is try doing it with the lights out at first and when your done and she is happy then the next time she sees it what can she say nothing as she enjoyed it the first time dont give up mate dont get rid of her keep going

Answer 7

She sounds a bit loopy. Maybe sexually inexperienced ?

I mean talking about that subject alot and going on about 9 to 14 inches ?

Sounds like she's bluffing or joking to me... unless she's been "heavily around". Yet you've been with her a year and its only got coming to this stage now ? Sounds like she's bluffing and trying to act the lad.

Talk about putting you under heavy pressure to impress. Good luck.

Answer 8

you've been datin a year and not had sex... my my just get passionate with her. she'll lap it up if u have been datin a year and not had sex shes probably **** hungry which is why shes talkin about it all the time.. trust me im a girl obviously size doesnt matter its what u do with it lol best of luck.. big boy lol

Answer 9

your gf dosent no what she is talking about, fair enough maybe there is some lads out there with dicks that size, and to be honestest it wouldn't even be that nice sleeping with someone that size, by the way your gf goes on about sex it sounds like she dosent have aclue, so maybe shes not ready yet.

Answer 10

ok bud... ALMOST EVERY MAN wants a 9 - 14 incher. Its rare, and both you and she knows it. Here is my advice. LOADS OF FOREPLAY!!!! If you get her excited enough before ever flopping it out on the table for business, she wont care if youre 14 inches, or 4 inches. Please her body with kisses, and such before getting into sex. You will know when she is ready.