well, he is already my bf, but i don't really want to be anymore. Yeah, because there is this other kid who also likes me, and we talk. He is so adorable! i wouldn't say that i like him though, but once we pretended to do 'it". (it was funny)
So, anyways how can i tell him that i just want to be his friend without using those words
2006-12-02 00:28:58 · 13 answers · asked by ipodlady231 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell the truth, why do you feel that you have to lie?. The truth is the best solution. I assume your talking about sex, when you were pretending to have sex, what message do you think that sends, lets be friends, it most likely turned him on. Do you feel that you must have sex to keep a relationship? If that's the case I think I would rather have no friends.
2006-12-02 00:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda confused but ill try. There are two guys and ones your bf and ones not but you dont want a bf anymore. So you have to tell both of them that you dont want a bf and you just want to be friends. If they really like you then they will respect your choice and just be friends just tell them that i think that i want to take it slower and just be friends.
Hope all works out!
2006-12-02 08:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by me_yes_me5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is soooo wierd - i was in like exactly the same situation last week - i told the guy i just wanted to be friends - i'm sure i almost broke his heart and now i regret it so much - i just want him back!
Please dont break up with him just for this other guy - You will upset him so much if he sees you like a few days later with another guy!
Sometimes you just don't know what you've got until it's gone!
2006-12-02 08:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no way for you to do that. You will have to tell him you do not want to be with him, otherwise you will hurt him unnecessarily. Be kind, but don't let him hold on to any false hope. It will hurt him a lot, but it will hurt him worse for you to let the relationship drag on. Good luck!
2006-12-02 08:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are young and want to date other people because you want to know what other people are like and that you still want to be their "Friend". Thats the line I used to get before I met the girl of my dreams and married her.
2006-12-02 08:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you want a break... that is the easiest way. and then you'll eventually drift apart. obviously this is cruel, but it is HARD to break up with people that really like you. but if you're young, like below 16... you probably date on and off like all the time... so no biggy, just TELL HIM STRAIGH! And young people are very resiliant, and 'break-ups' will make you both stronger... GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-02 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why beat around the bush, just tell him in a direct way.
2006-12-02 08:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him but if you insist on beating around the bush say im sorry but i think we'd be better off friends but thats dumping him.
2006-12-02 08:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in deep trouble by pretending girl and just tell him out loud
2006-12-02 08:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the way you are telling us here
2006-12-02 08:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋