like just because they dont show there love like I do that they dont love me,why do I feel this way,why can I not believe it when they tell me they love me .am I exspecting too much .
2006-12-02 00:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by lainey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many people have this problem, deep down in your heart you know very well that your bf loves you, but its your insecuritys that are getting the way which are making you doubt his love for you, try and get past the insecuritys that you have and think about all the positive things that make you realize that your bf loves you! and then you will be able to understand there is no need to have these doubts!
2006-12-02 00:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of explanations that come to mind. First, do you deep down inside feel that you are unlovable? If you feel that way, you'll NEVER feel loved because your mind knows (erroneously, of course) that you are unlovable. You get that way by parents who gave you a sadly misguided message as a child.
Second, you may not feel that the guy loves you because he's being manipulative and trying to achieve something which he thinks he can get only by telling you he's in love with you.
There are helps for both situations. In any case, it won't hurt to go slow with the relationship until you sort things out in your mind.
2006-12-02 08:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do it because you love him a lot
the same case is with me too but im a guy
2006-12-02 08:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by alone l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz the love word gets used too much,,it means nothing,,actions speak louder than words,,
2006-12-02 08:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋