when i shall settle down in my carrer as well as in my marriage . family life?

Question

i want to know about my carrer life and marriage life and about my husband

Answer 1

Never. The only constant is change. You've got to roll with it. You have to find a way to be comfortable with that. Sometimes I write down what can go wrong. I then come up with a plan of action to remedy the imaginary situation. It's a good feeling to know you can handle the bad. And you can!

Answer 2

Just relax every body passes thru this face , Infact its quite difficult to balance the act of career and family life . I can undersatnd your situation .Just be slow and focus your self and on what you need the most and be sure never ever to take your work place to home .Always ask your self the question is it right or wrong and think twice on any decesion which you make .Balancing act is just not perfect , you just need to flow .Remember keep moving in life it all works fine give it some time and hope

Answer 3

Marriage is an 'UNDERSTANDING' between two minds, two hearts, two lives...you want a true answer to your question ?

You and your husband will have to decide on this. Once you are decided, both must be true to the decision taken and honour it respectfully. There should never be any show of repentence after the two of you have taken a decision. Later in life the decision may need to be reconsidered - agin only the two of you must decide.

Best wishes,

Answer 4

If you want to excel in both then be ready for great sacrifices.........because managing both at same time needs high will power.............and my mother was able to succeed in it.........ya!!......my mother managed her personal and professional life so well that everything is fine......she still continues to do so..........even with out getting a help from her in-laws or her parents

My mother is a second child......so her parents had to live with their first son
My Father is a third child.......so his parents had to live with their first son

and to add to this problem of balancing.......we lived away from our hometown

But when I and my brother were in primary school..........my mother hired a servant to take care of us two........selecting a servant for your children is crucial.........i need not explain that to anyone........because that servant has to be very trustworthy........otherwise things like kidnapping etc...might happen

My mother faced a lot of problems balancing these two ......even without any family support......and i truely respect her for that and also for what she has done to me and to my brother.......due to which we two have been successful in our education and goals

So......I suggest that you select a groom who would be the only son in his family or else the eldest........because when you get married and have kids..........your in-laws will take care of your kids........and there by you will be able to live a stress free life

But if the groom is not the first child of his family.......then be prepared to sacrifice a lot in order to be successful in both sides.......just like my mother

All the best for your future

Answer 5

for that u have simplify sleep for 14 hours per day. dont forget to sleep in the afternoon. dont bath, brush ur teeth, dont do anything. yr life wil get settle down.

Answer 6

When you are ready, everything you dream about shall be true

Answer 7

whn u stop askin and plunge into action