i do have a bf who is a married man.we love each other but our problem was he has already a wife.how ca i get him to be mine.
2006-12-01 22:46:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want him? Married men almost never leave their wives, no matter what they tell you. Even if you do get him to be with you, he's going to just cheat on you too. Think about it.
2006-12-01 22:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty cold you wanting to take this man from his wife. And it is wrong for him to be doing his wife in this way. You speak as though this is some sort of game and what your doing to making plans to fulfill your own happiness at an others expense. Even if you get this man how will you feel if down the road another woman does this same thing to you? Find a man that's single at least this way you won't be breaking an others heart.
2006-12-01 23:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to ruin the family of a married bf? Why can you not let him go, and find a new one without a string a touched to have free and peaceful family of your own? Is he only the living guy on earth who knows how to love a woman like you?
I suggest you have to think it twice before pursuing your motive to regain a losing bf but now already married. I know you deserve a best guy who is more handsome than a bf married one.. Good Luck..
2006-12-01 22:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi friend, I tell you that is not yours. If you try winning him, yes you may succed but remember one thing that a time is coming when you will realise that he wasn't your husband. It will be worse that you will be unable to explain how it actually began.
Dear friend, be ware that the man you love is married and will never leave that wife, the same man loves someone else like he loves you and many other. So dear you better look for yours and don't waste even a single second with that married man. But only if you choose to be his second wife which will be even more sad on your side.
As beautiful and smart as I just imagine, be patient and pray God to choose for you the best man you have never seen so far, kwani "Patience pays alot". You man is really looking and longing to seeing you dear. My suggestion may not be soothing as you expected but it is the fact. Those men you see out there are liers. He loves you, me and she but tomorrow, another group.
I pray to you, for God may grant you the exact man He meant for you.
God bless and best wishes.
2006-12-01 23:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by jeyomosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is, how can he be your boyfriend if he is married? You are his scank and he is a scank as well. I'm just being truthful. Can't you get your own man? I guess not. You can't possibly have any self esteem if you have to go after a married man. He is using you and you are letting him. I am siding with the wife. You better hope she dosen't find out. You are probably so desperate that you probably want her to find out. God help you both.
2006-12-02 00:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KARMA is all I can say. He's not going to leave if he hasn't already. He may have feelings for you but if he isn't with you he doesn't really love you. Step back and take a look @ the situation. Love is blind. You may truly be in love with him but this man has no respect for you or his wife if he is doing this. So why would you even want to be with a man like this. Like I said step back and way your options and and take a closer look @ the situation that you are in.
2006-12-01 22:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man who cheats on his wife will cheat on you.You are a fool to think that he's with you because you are some how better than she.He is of weak moral character and why would you grant him the ability to cheat and commit adultery with you ? adultery is being committed here by you as well as he.One day you will really fall in love and marry and all this will come back around to you when you least expect it because what goes around always comes back around. Leave this woman's husband alone,she is innocent in this and if he's having problems with his wife he should man up and deal with it and not drag you into this adulterous affair.
2006-12-01 22:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you, even if you love him. He likes that you are there to tell him how great he is and have sex with him and he wants sex and fun from you but he doesn't want a life with you. Otherwise he would already have separated from the wife he's lying to so he would be free to have a relationship with you.
If you are happy to be his sex toy, that's your choice. He's not your boyfreend - he's your sex exploiter, and he's demonstrating every time you call him that he's a no-good liar and cheat - and if he's cheating on his wife right now, who else will he cheat on next? You are already number one on that list - plus how do you know he's not seeing other women while he's seeing you.
This guy is a RAT. Lose him, with prejudice.
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2006-12-01 22:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Walter K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him to be yours be happy with what you've got or find another
BTW - So many self righteous morally opiniated people out there. By being an adultress you are being an outlaw not in the sense of being a criminal but in the sense of living outside the law. I'm an outlaw too.
2006-12-01 23:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf deserve each other, and you also deserve it when he cheats on you with someone else. He's probably doing that right now. I guess you have not learned by now...when a man cheats, he'll always cheat.
2006-12-02 07:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, remember that.
He has a wife to go home to and he has you on the side, if you decide to break it off with him, he will just find someone else to hang out with and keep his wife. He isn't going to get divorced, he's just playing you.
Good Luck.
2006-12-01 22:55:18 · answer #11 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋